Steven Prager

Top rated Family Law attorney in La Mesa, California

Prager Jones
Steven Prager
Prager Jones
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Licensed in California since: 2012

Education: Thomas Jefferson School of Law

Selected to Super Lawyers: 2026

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Prager Jones

7777 Alvarado Rd
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La Mesa, CA 91942 Visit website

In the heart of La Mesa, California, Steven Prager stands as a beacon of support for those navigating the complexities of family law. At Prager Jones, his practice encompasses a wide array of family law matters, including divorce, child custody and support, domestic violence restraining orders, mediation, parentage, and prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. With a deep understanding of the emotional and legal challenges his clients face, he offers a guiding hand through the often daunting family court system.

With over a decade of dedicated legal experience, Mr. Prager has successfully handled thousands of cases, boasting a remarkable success rate. His legal journey began in 2010 with the San Diego County Public Defender. By 2012, he had joined a law firm in Los Angeles, where he became a partner. Eventually, he established his own practice, Prager Jones in 2019. He also expanded his competence to include licensure in the State of Texas and admission to practice before the U.S. District Court for the Southern District.

Mr. Prager's approach to legal practice is characterized by efficiency and a focus on resolving issues swiftly and cost-effectively for his clients. Recognizing that each case is unique, he tailors his legal strategies to fit the specific needs of each situation. Whether through diplomatic negotiation or assertive litigation, his diverse skill set ensures that he can adapt to any legal challenge. His background in competitive chess and game theory reinforces his innovative strategies, which he credits for many of his successes.

Beyond the courtroom, Mr. Prager has emerged as San Diego's leading social media influencer in the realm of divorce and family law. With millions of views, several viral videos, and a substantial following across platforms like TikTok, Meta, Google and YouTube, he has filled a crucial niche by providing valuable insights on divorce, family law, parenting and marriage.

In addition to his legal work, Mr. Prager is deeply committed to philanthropy and community service. His efforts span a range of causes, including animal rescue, suicide prevention for military veterans, environmental advocacy, the Positive Movement Foundation, LGBTQ rights and support for at-risk children and youth.

In 2025, Mr. Prager spearheaded a collaborative effort with other San Diego law firms to gather and deliver supplies to victims of the Palisades Fire in Los Angeles County, demonstrating his unwavering dedication to making a positive impact beyond the legal sphere.

Practice areas

Family Law

Focus areas

Child Support, Custody & Visitation, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Mediation & Collaborative Law, Prenuptial Agreements

  • 100% Family Law

First Admitted: 2012, California

Professional Webpage: https://www.pragerjones.com/member/steven-j-prager/

Bar / Professional Activity

  • Assisted the JNE Commission on vetting potential Superior Court Judges for the County of San Diego. , 2025
  • California Lawyers Association
  • Los Angeles Guardians, 2014 to 2017
  • U.S. District Court Southern District of California, 2018
  • Texas, 2021
  • California, 2012
  • Assisted the JNE Commission on vetting potential Superior Court Judges for the County of San Diego. , 2024
  • Assisted the JNE Commission on vetting potential Superior Court Judges for the County of San Diego. , 2023
  • Participated as a Judge for the National Sports Law Negotiation Competition 2018 - Present. Law schools from around the country form teams to compete at the annual competition. I have been selected and participated to serve as a Judge at this prestigious national competition since 2018. Also, noted under "Achievements" Section., 2022
  • 2018 to present, Tom Homann LGBT Law Association, 2018
  • 2017 to present, San Diego County Bar Association., 2017
  • 2012 to 2017, San Fernando Valley Bar Association., 2012

Verdicts / Settlements (Case Results)

  • Recovered abducted children and had them returned to my client’s custody., 2025
  • Successfully terminated a Spousal Support obligation for a US Customs and Border Patrol Officer that wanted to retire. , 2025
  • Restored client’s custody rights after client had been falsely accused of statutory rape., 2025
  • Settled a highly contested divorce where my client was awarded the house, the boat, and successfully defeated a restraining order based on false allegations., 2025
  • Successfully persuaded the Court to allow a US Naval Officer to relocate to another state with their minor child. , 2025
  • Recovered substantial sanctions against a spouse for witness intimidation during a trial. , 2025
  • On the 5th day of trial, I settled a high conflict divorce that had been going on for 7-years.  After many prior counsels on the case (both sides) had failed to bring about a resolution., 2025
  • Had Client exonerated from false sexual abuse allegations., 2025
  • I won a divorce trial where my client was able to retain 100% ownership of his company, sole custody of his children, and pay $0 spousal support to wife., 2022
  • Successfully settled a post-judgment modification for spousal support. My client discovered his ex-wife was concealing her co-habitation with a new life partner. We leveraged proof of the co-habitation to vastly reduce the amount of the spousal support obligation to my client in a stipulated settlement. , 2022
  • Settled a military divorce where my client was able to keep the marital residence and primary custody of the children., 2022
  • Negotiated an extremely favorable marital settlement agreement for a successful crypto-currency trader. My client was able to retain nearly all of his investments and 100% of his crypto currency holdings., 2022
  • Successfully negotiated and settled a dissolution on behalf of a client with severe dementia. The matter involved the cooperation of the probate court and the appointment of a conservatorship and a guardian ad litem to resolve the matter. The matter took 5 years to resolve due to the complications with my client's dementia., 2022
  • Successfully demurred a contempt proceeding for custody and visitation violations. The contempt case was adverse to my client and was demurred based upon deficiencies in the pleadings. , 2022
  • I defeated a motion to quash summons and to set aside a judgment for dissolution. The matter was brought by a Father that was attempting to evade his child support arrears. The motions were denied on technical grounds and legal arguments. I concluded the matter well under the client's budget for the case., 2022
  • Drafted and negotiated the structured buy-out of a marital residence as part of a global settlement to resolve a heavily contested dissolution case., 2022
  • 2-year Domestic Violence Restraining Order granted in favor of high-profile client., 2021
  • Successfully Defended Domestic Violence Restraining Order for Celebrity Client at Verdict., 2021
  • Adverse Civil Harassment Restraining Order Denied at Verdict., 2021
  • Divorce Trial Overwhelming Favorable Decision for my Client at Verdict. , 2020
  • Multi-Million Dollar Divorce Settled on Favorable Terms., 2020

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Representative Clients

  • Represented the Mother in a custody matter where the Father had been involved in a highly publicized Catholic Church sex scandal.  https://www.dolr.org/article/father-james-melnick-suspended-ministry https://arkansas-catholic.org/2014/09/28/father-james-melnick-suspended-from-ministry/ https://www.arkansasonline.com/news/2014/sep/30/priest-ousted-on-complaints-of-miscondu/, 2025
  • Represented a Chief Medical Officer who supervises nearly 2000 physicans in San Diego. The matter concerned child custody and child support. , 2025
  • I represent the CEO of a leading international cyber security corporation in a dissolution matter., 2025
  • Represented parent of teen son that was murdered in highly publicized gang stabbing.  https://fox5sandiego.com/news/local-news/family-mourns-escondido-teen-stabbed-to-death-in-street-fight/ https://www.sandiegouniontribune.com/2024/06/18/14-year-old-boy-fatally-stabbed-in-escondido-street-fight-is-identified/  , 2025
  • I represent the abuse victim of the San Diego Police Officer (Seth Tate). The matter has received a lot of media coverage.  https://www.cbs8.com/article/news/local/sdpd-officer-guilty-domestic-violence/509-cdf42863-2b1a-4a67-bcd7-e4b4d6938f60 https://www.nbcsandiego.com/news/local/san-diego-police-officer-convicted-domestic-violence/3844440/, 2025
  • Represented the CLO "Chief Legal Officer" of a Forturne 500 tech company in a divorce and custody matter. , 2025
  • Winning trial lawyer for retired military judge in a highly contested divorce., 2025
  • Child custody matter for billionaire client in financial industry. , 2025
  • Legal consultant and advisor for a former Miami Dolphins football player.  , 2025
  • Highly contentious spousal support and child support matter for a 2-time Major League Baseball Allstar and future Hall of Famer., 2025
  • Represented a former U.S. Attorney in a divorce and custody matter. , 2024
  • I recovered two children that were kidnapped by a co-parent before they were smuggled out of the country. I developed and managed a taskforce comprised of the District Attorney's Child Abduction Unit, multi-jurisdictional law enforcement agencies, private security team, and the FBI. The children were located and safely returned to my client within 2-weeks following their abduction. My client was awarded sole legal and sole physical custody. The offending co-parent is now prohibited from having any contact with the children., 2022
  • Negotiated Prenuptial Agreement for $30,000,000.00 estate., 2021
  • High-Conflict Dissolution of Marriage. Multiple Real Property Holdings and Family Owned Business. Settled by Martial Settlement Agreement. Assets Approximately $3,000,000., 2021
  • Negotiated and settled a post-judgement Stipulation and Order to Modify the terms of a Judgment for Dissolution with an incorporated Marital Settlement Agreement. The matter modified the ownership interests of a company currently valued at over $50,000,000., 2021
  • Succeeded at motioning the court to appoint a Evidence Code 730 expert witness for a psychological evaluation pursuant to a high conflict divorce matter with minor children. , 2021
  • Successfully Defended a Civil Harassment Restraining Order. Court granted my CCP 631.8 motion during the trial. , 2021
  • Successfully represented a Party in a premarital agreement. Assets of approximately $10,000,000., 2021
  • Successfully represented a Party in a premarital agreement. Assets of approximately $30,000,000., 2021
  • Hight Asset Dissolution of Marriage. Assets over $2,000,000. Settled by Marital Settle Agreement., 2021
  • Ultra high-conflict, child custody, move-away case. Litigation fees and costs totaled over $250,000.00 collectively between the parties. The matter settled upon favorable terms., 2020
  • Secured a Domestic Violence Restraining Order for a client that I was currently representing in a dissolution of marriage with minor children., 2020
  • One of the largest child support matters in San Diego County for the year 2020. I located and recovered approximately $2,500,000 in funds being conceal from my client. The matter settled on highly favorable terms. , 2020

Special Licenses / Certifications

  • PADI Certified Master Diver, 2018
  • Certified Chapter Outings Leader (COL I), Sierra Club, 2018
  • PADI Certified Rescue Diver , 2017

Pro bono / Community Service

  • January to April of 2025, I organized and lead a joint effort between local law firms to collect and deliver supplies to the victims of the Palisades fire in Los Angeles. , 2025
  • Sponsored serveral of my client's children by paying for their music lessons while I represented their parents., 2025
  • American Red Cross frequent blood donor. , 2025
  • Made a large donation to a charity that provided care and medical attention to animals that were displaced and/or injured due to the Los Angeles fires. , 2025
  • In conjunction with Moze Guitar's of La Mesa. I commssioned several guitars to be made and later donated them to military veterans., 2025
  • I am actively involved with the Positive Movement Foundation that raises funds for at-risk children and youth. , 2025
  • Represented a Father on a pro bono basis to increase his summer break visitation with his Son., 2025
  • On April 18, 2024, I lectured at SDSU to pre-law students about divorce and family law. , 2025
  • Represented a transgender teenager on a pro bono basis. Successfully, had the Court grant a name and gender marker change., 2025
  • Represented a domestic abuse victim on a pro bono basis. Successfully, had a permanent restraining order granted to protect the victim and her children., 2025
  • Represented Indigent Father who was victimized by Parental Alienation., 2025
  • On October 2, 2024, I spoke to a full auditorium of pre-law students at the Universtity of San Diego. The topic of the engagement regarded different career paths in the legal industry. , 2024
  • Made several large donations to Rescue Love Bulldogs. A San Diego-based organization committed to providing medical care and loving homes for bulldogs in need., 2024
  • American Red Cross frequent blood donor. , 2024
  • Represented a Client to resolve a dispute over child support arrears. The matter was successfully settled by stipulation. I waived the entirety of my fees on the matter., 2022
  • Represented a former college football player in parentage matter pro bono. Client/Father had been denied any contact with his child. Mother had changed residences yearly to avoid being found by Father. After months of investigation I was able to locate Mother and child in an adjoining State. I succeeded in a contested dispute of jurisdiction to keep the matter in California. Father now has court ordered visitation with child. The matter consisted of nearly $10,000 in attorney fees and costs that were waived to assist a Father who wanted to be involved in his child's life. , 2022
  • I served the board of directors (2016 to 2018) and was on several committees for the Guardians, of the Los Angeles Jewish Home (A non-profit fundraising organisation), 2018
  • From 2018 to present I have volunteered as an attorney for the Name and Gender Marker Change Clinic at the San Diego LGBT Center., 2018
  • 2014 to 2017 I volunteered on numerous occasions speaking at high schools and guiding high school students on courthouse tours. , 2014
  • 2013 to 2017 I participated in the annual "Blanket the Homeless". A charitable fundraiser where attorneys pass out blankets and volunteer at a free legal aid clinic for Los Angeles homeless residents. , 2013
  • From 2010 to present I have volunteered with the San Diego Sierra Club. I have held many different positions with the Sierra Club, including but not limited to, Chapter Outings Leader, Staff Photographer, General Staff.
  • Public Interest Law Foundation member 2008 to 2011., 2011

Educational Background

  • California State University, Northridge, Los Angeles, California, B.A., Bachelor of Arts, Honors: Dean’s List, Honors: With Distinction – 2007, 2007

Scholarly Lectures / Writings

  • People who are going through a divorce and share children with each other will still have to communicate. This isn’t always easy, partly because of the negative events that may have led to the divorce.  Being able to communicate calmly with each other can be beneficial for the children. This provides them with a strong foundation of love and cooperation from their parents. Considering these tips may help as you embark on the co-parenting journey.  Children must be the focal point Children must be the focal point of all conversations between you and your ex. It’s easy to fall into the habit of bringing up the past, but that won’t solve problems involving the children. The only time the past should be brought up is when there are safety or health issues that can directly impact the children.  Situations may require compromise Some situations may require co-parents to compromise. This must be done in the best interests of the children. One example occurs when parents need to adjust the parenting time schedule to accommodate something like a visit from an out-of-town family member.  Dispute resolution is critical It’s highly unlikely that you and your ex will always agree on things related to the children. With that in mind, it’s best to have at least a basic conflict resolution method. This can be as simple as taking a step back while you calm down and then returning to the conversation when you’re relaxed.  Anyone who’s going through a split that involves children should ensure they get the parenting plan set as early in the process as possible. These plans can be complex, so it might be best to work with someone who’s familiar with these matters so they can assist with ensuring the necessary terms are included. , Author, Tips for Calm Communication in Co-Parenting, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • When a marriage ends, the most important question often becomes: what’s best for the kids? It’s a deeply personal, emotional time, and making decisions about parenting can feel overwhelming. Courts know that every family is different, and they take that seriously. The good news is that there are clear factors they use to help ensure children thrive after divorce, understanding what these factors entail can help prepare you for the future and offer peace of mind. What do judges look for in a parenting plan? Courts begin every custody case with one core focus: the child’s best interests. While a phrase like that might seem broad, it refers to concrete factors like emotional stability, physical safety and how well each parent can meet the child’s day-to-day needs. Judges examine whether the home environments are secure, how well the child is doing in school, and whether each parent is actively involved in their development. Some states may also take into account the child’s relationship with each parent, and in some cases depending on the child’s age and maturity, their own preferences may play a significant role in the final decision. A strong parenting plan goes beyond basic scheduling, it shows how both parents will actively support their child’s long-term well-being. This includes outlining routines for: School Decisions about healthcare Holiday arrangements How time will be shared between households While flexibility is valuable, consistency is equally important. A thoughtful plan should provide the child with a sense of stability and routine, helping them navigate the transition with as little disruption as possible. Judges may also pay close attention to how each parent communicates and resolves disagreements. Parents who are able to set aside personal conflict and collaborate respectfully for the sake of the child are more likely to be viewed more favorably in court. This doesn’t mean the relationship has to be perfect, but a willingness to compromise, listen and put the child’s needs first can make a meaningful difference. If you’re facing these decisions about child custody, you’re not alone. Talking with a legal professional can help you move forward with clarity and confidence., Author, Parenting Plans: What do Courts Look For in Custody Decisions?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • When you’re going through a divorce with significant wealth, protecting your assets becomes your top priority.  Your financial future depends on understanding how courts divide property and what steps you can take to preserve your wealth. 1. Your assets get divided into two categories Courts will classify everything you own as either community property or separate property. Community property includes anything you earned or bought during your marriage, like your salary, real estate purchases and investment gains. On the other hand, separate property stays yours and includes assets you owned before marriage, inheritances and gifts made specifically to you. 2. Getting accurate values for your assets You need current market values for everything, not what you originally paid. Your real estate, business interests, investment portfolios and valuable collections all require professional appraisals to determine their worth today. Business valuations are especially tricky because they include both physical assets and intangible value like customer relationships and future earnings. 3. Protecting your business interests If you own a business, the portion built during marriage becomes subject to division. Courts might order you to sell it and split proceeds, buy out your spouse’s share, or continue as co-owners after divorce. Planning protects your business operations from disruption. Having clear agreements about business ownership before problems arise can save you from expensive disputes and operational headaches during divorce proceedings. 4. Understanding tax consequences Every asset transfer or sale creates tax implications that affect what you receive. Capital gains taxes, retirement account penalties and alimony payments all reduce the real value of your settlement. Some assets might look equal on paper but cost you differently in taxes. Smart timing of when you sell or transfer assets can save you substantial money and improve your final position. 5. Taking steps to preserve wealth Start documenting everything and prevent your spouse from hiding or wasting assets. Keep detailed records of all property and ensure insurance coverage continues protecting your valuables throughout the divorce process. Wealthy divorces are complex because of the money at stake, so you need to seek legal guidance to protect your interests and get the best possible outcome. , Author, 5 Things you need to Know about Divorce and your Assets, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • Getting engaged and then married is a major commitment. It is also a significant risk. Particularly when people have married before, when they have complex family situations or when they have high-value assets, they may worry about their future financial stability. The financial vulnerability that comes from combining resources can be difficult to navigate. Those concerned about the possibility of financial complications during marriage and in the event of a divorce may want to protect themselves. Prenuptial agreements can be a viable way to limit personal exposure during marriage and in the event of a divorce. However, many people feel anxious at the prospect of asking for a prenuptial agreement after getting engaged. Before broaching the topic with a fiancé, people first need to consider the three issues below. Cultural and religious ideals People often marry across cultures and religions. With compassion and mutual understanding, marriages can work well even when there are major differences in personal values and beliefs. While many members of the younger generations, including Millennials and Gen Z, are open to the idea of prenuptial agreements, members of conservative religions and cultures may find them offensive. Additionally, older adults may also balk at the proposal to establish a prenuptial agreement even if they have experienced a messy divorce previously. The protections needed The fiancé proposing a prenuptial agreement usually needs to have a clear idea of how they intend to protect themselves. For example, they may want to designate the business that they already own as separate property or preemptively protect the inheritance they expect to receive when their parents die. Ensuring a balance between both parties’ interests is critical. The fiancé agreeing to the contract also gains the ability to protect resources or establish expectations for property division matters. What to do after a refusal Not everyone who proposes a prenuptial agreement successfully convinces their fiancé to negotiate and sign a contract. In scenarios where the other party intensely opposes signing a prenuptial agreement, the fiancé suggesting the agreement needs to have a plan. Do they intend to move forward with the marriage but take steps to keep certain resources separate? Do they feel strongly that they cannot enter into a marriage without contractual protection? Are they willing to risk their fiancé ending the engagement because of the conversation about the marital agreement? Thinking about what may happen if a prenuptial agreement isn’t an option can help people prepare for what could be a very difficult and emotional process ahead. Learning more about prenuptial agreements can help people explain their wishes more effectively to their fiancés. Those hoping to protect themselves with a marital contract may need legal support when preparing for a potentially challenging conversation, and that’s okay., Author, 3 Important Considerations when Suggesting a Prenup, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • Military life does not pause when personal matters arise; divorce is no exception. If you are going through a divorce and receive Permanent Change of Station (PCS) orders, the process can get even more complicated, especially when children are involved.  You might be wondering how a sudden move affects your parenting plan. Can your spouse stop you from taking the kids? Could you lose custody if you move? These are real concerns for military families dealing with divorce, and the answers are not always clear-cut.  When duty calls, but you are still a parent  PCS orders do not automatically change custody, but they can influence decisions during or after divorce. Courts look at the child’s best interests first, and moving far away from the other parent can be a big factor.  If you are facing PCS orders during a divorce, here are some things to keep in mind:  Do not make sudden moves: Leaving the state with your child before getting a court’s permission could hurt your custody case.  Talk to a legal professional right away: They can help file a motion to adjust the parenting plan or request a temporary custody order.  Gather documents supporting your move: This can include orders, housing plans and school information. Courts need to see that your child’s needs will still be met.  Be flexible with parenting time: If you are moving far, consider offering longer visits during school breaks or paying for travel costs. This shows the court that you are willing to keep both parents involved.  Being a service member does not take away your rights as a parent, but it does require extra care during a divorce. You will need to balance your duties with what is best for your child, and that often means working closely with your legal team.  Divorce is never easy, especially with military rules in the mix. A legal practitioner who understands the legal system and military life can help you protect your rights and your role as a parent. , Author, Can PCS Orders Affect Child Custody?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • One of the key factors in determining how much spousal support (alimony) a person has to pay to their ex is income. The income of the payor and recipient are both considered.  Another important factor, however, is earning potential. While a person’s income typically shouldn’t be much lower than how much they can earn based on their education, experience and skills, it sometimes falls below that based on factors beyond their control — like how their industry is doing, the local economy and more. What if someone is intentionally minimizing their income? Unfortunately, some people intentionally remain “underemployed” or unemployed to try to minimize or avoid alimony. On the other side of the equation, they may do the same in order to get more alimony. This practice is more common when the person who’s not living up to their earning potential has other, undisclosed sources of income.  It’s crucial to understand the importance of earning potential if a person believes their ex isn’t being completely honest about their ability to support themselves or to pay spousal support. It’s one thing if someone becomes unemployed for a time because of layoffs or their income drops significantly because of a lack of work – for example, due to a downturn in the economy. However, it’s another when these factors don’t seem to be at play. If you believe your ex isn’t being honest about their earning capability and that the support order should be modified (and certainly if your spouse isn’t abiding by the support order), you should take the matter to court. If they’re intentionally minimizing their income, the court can take the necessary steps to help ensure that the support is in line with their earning potential. Having experienced legal guidance when taking any divorce-related matter to court can be crucial to the outcome., Author, What if an Ex Isn’t Living Up to their Earning Potential?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • Co-parenting can sometimes be challenging. In most cases, co-parents eventually reach a workable way of raising their children together. Yet sometimes, one parent has no intention of ever letting the relationship become easier. They aim to continue making their co-parent’s life as difficult as possible. What can you do if your co-parent is like this? Here are some ideas: Restrict contact One thing you can do is to restrict contact with them. Obviously, some contact will be needed because you still have to raise your child together, but don’t give your co-parent more access to you than is necessary. The idea is to reduce their opportunities to cause you harm. You can say no to face-to-face meetings or phone calls and tell them to contact you by email only. Parenting apps are another option, as they allow you each to input many of the things you both need to know on the shared calendar. They also allow you to send messages, which will be stored, giving you a record of any inappropriate ones. Set rules for handovers Handovers can be a great opportunity for a difficult co-parent to cause disruption. There are all sorts of things they can do, from turning up late to make the other parent late for work, to picking an argument in front of the kids. Think about how you can reduce their chances of affecting you. For example, scheduling them to drop off while you are happily drinking coffee with a friend and a delay is not a problem. Or scheduling them in a public place to reduce the chance that they try to pick a fight. You could even have someone else do the handover for you. If you suspect your co-parent is going to be purposefully difficult, you can get some solid rules in your parenting plan. Then, if they keep trying to break them, you may want to approach the court to intervene., Author, What if your Co-Parent is Intentionally Being Difficult?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • A lot of children grow up seeing far less of their dads than their mums. Sometimes it has always been like that, other times it gets that way after a divorce. Courts do not have an automatic preference for either mothers or fathers when looking at custody and parenting, but more children end up living with their mums after a divorce than with their dads, especially when the child is a girl. Here is why research suggests that ensuring daughters still see their dads is crucial (except in cases where that would be dangerous). 1. Healthier relationships with men A father’s love is important to a girl’s security and self-confidence. A lack of it can cause her to lack those two things. This can leave her more vulnerable to unsuitable relationships with other men, such as those who use showering a girl with “love” as a means of control and manipulation. 2. Mental health The way dads play with their young daughters is often very different from how mothers do. They tend to be more likely to expose them to challenges, failure and knocks than mothers. This can help daughters build resilience and self-confidence, both of which can help them navigate the challenges of life they will face when they are older. 3. Money Girls do better at school when they have their dad’s support, which can help them get better-paid jobs. The risk-taking and resilience that improve their mental health can also serve them well in their careers. Creating the best custody and parenting plan for your child is not always easy. Learning more about your options for this can benefit you and your children., Author, 3 Benefits Daughters Get from Having their Dads Around, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • Southern Californians always have to be prepared to leave their homes – sometimes at a moment’s notice. Earthquakes and fires can leave people with mere moments to get out and get to safety. Torrential rains and flooding can also require moving to another location, at least until the worst is over. And those are just the acts of nature to be prepared for. There are plenty of man-made threats worthy of concern as well. As a result, all Californians are reminded repeatedly to have a family emergency plan in place and to make sure that one’s entire family – including the kids – knows what that plan is. It should include a meet-up point in case family members are in different locations, like school and work, when disaster strikes and they can’t go home. Unfortunately, when parents separate or divorce, they’re often too busy worrying about other things to update their plan until the next catastrophic event happens. One thing all parents should agree on is that they want everyone to be safe. Here are a few things both parents should have in their homes. Go-bags and emergency provisions for the kids When parents share custody, even if not equally, each child should have their own go-bag in both homes. There should also be one for the pet(s) if they move with the kids between homes. Both homes should have enough emergency provisions, including food, water, first-aid supplies and medications, in case it’s not possible to leave for a time. Contact and meet-up point information Both parents should have a list of family members (on both sides) and others who may need to be contacted. This includes schools, daycare facilities and babysitters. (These parties should have both parents’ contact information as well.) There should be a paper copy in an easily accessible place in addition to being on everyone’s phones since electricity and cell service may be out. It’s still important to have a meet-up point where kids and parents can reunite – especially if no one can get in touch with each other. Co-parents should assure their kids that no matter how angry they may be at one another, they’ll always put that aside to work together in an emergency. Ultimately, it can be smart to add a provision about your family emergency preparedness plan in one’s parenting plan to help ensure that each co-parent is committed to following it when – not if – the next disaster strikes., Author, It’s Important to Update a Family Emergency Plan Post-Divorce, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • Married couples often open a variety of credit accounts with each other. This can include things like the mortgage and car note, but it can also involve other types of credit like credit cards. There are also other debts, such as doctor, utility, tax and other bills that they have to pay.  Many people don’t realize that once they make the decision to divorce, the property division process handles the assets the couple owns, as well as the debts they have. Going through a divorce doesn’t mean these debts go away.  Asset liquidation may enable debt payoff Some people who are in this position opt to liquidate their assets so they can pay off debts. This enables both individuals to have less financial responsibility from the union once they end their marriage.  In some cases, there will still be marital debts left. These must be divided between the two parties as part of the property division process. It’s critical that each person pays what they’re responsible for because creditors can still hold both parties liable for these debts. This is because the divorce is a civil matter that the creditors aren’t part of. Anyone who’s going through a divorce should ensure they protect their own interests, which includes looking after their financial future. Trying to minimize the chance of their ex being able to affect their credit report by not paying the debts assigned to the ex might be beneficial. This could be easier if they have someone on their side to assist with this legal matter. , Author, Divorce Doesn’t Do Away With Debts, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • Many people often consider reasons to keep their home when they get divorced, such as not wanting to go through a move or maintaining stability for children who want to keep living in the home. There certainly can be many good reasons to try to keep the family home. One spouse keeping the home is of the main three options that we recently discussed. It is important to look at things from all sides. To that end, here are some reasons you may not want to keep the home. It will feel more expensive You and your spouse may have been living on two incomes while you were married, but that will drop to one income after the divorce. This makes everything about your home feel more expensive. Even simply paying the mortgage takes up a greater percentage of your monthly income. You may need to refinance Speaking of your mortgage, you will probably need to refinance it after the divorce. This way, you are the only one who is liable for future payments, but refinancing on one income can be difficult. It can prevent a fresh start Finally, consider the mental and emotional side of the divorce. Many people feel like living in the same home prevents them from fully having a fresh start and moving on with their life. If you are looking for ways to put the divorce behind you and move forward — especially if you do not have children — it may be best to sell the home, take your share and buy a new place to live. As you can see, deciding what to do with major assets can be complicated during divorce. Be sure to think about it carefully and consider all of your legal options.  , Author, Reasons for Not Keeping the Home After Divorce, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • Owning a home together is something many couples dream of and work hard to achieve. Hence, the home can soon become one of the most contentious points if the marriage does not last and they decide to divorce. What are your options for dealing with the home you bought together? 1. Sell it and move on Putting your house or apartment up for sale is often best. You can then free yourself from the joint mortgage and each move on with some money in your pocket to put down a deposit on a new place.  2. One of you keeps it One person keeping it typically requires one of two things to happen. Either they take it in exchange for the other person keeping other assets. Or they buy the other person out, perhaps taking out a new mortgage with a new partner, family member or friend to do so. 3. Hold on to it together Sometimes selling is not the right option at this time and neither of you wants to, or can afford to, buy the other one out. Examples could include if you have children nearing the end of their schooling or if the market is down at the moment. It could also be an option if you have enough assets to afford to get a new place each and keep this as an investment, perhaps to rent out. This is typically the most complicated of all the options though, as you’ll have to continue coordinating with each other when it comes to payments, upkeep and more. There will be a lot to consider when deciding which option is best and learning more about the legalities of it all is wise before you make any decision., Author, 3 Choices for your House in a Divorce, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • Y our parents left you an inheritance when they passed away. It’s a substantial sum of money, perhaps in the millions. It makes up a significant percentage of your net worth. Your spouse has now asked you for a divorce, and they claim that they should get to take half of that inheritance with them. After all, the two of you were already married when your parents passed away and you received the inheritance. Do you have to split it through property division or not? Who was it given to? The first question is just who received the inheritance. If your parents wrote a check to both you and your spouse as a couple, then you may both have ownership rights, meaning you have to split it up. However, if the inheritance was given directly to you alone, then it probably does not count as a marital asset. Instead, since it was a direct gift, it’s a separate asset, and you get to keep it. Was it commingled? The second question to ask is whether or not that inheritance was commingled during your marriage. This just means mixing it together with other assets, and it can happen in a few different ways. For instance, if you and your spouse have already used some of the money to make joint purchases, those purchases are marital assets that have to be divided. Likewise, if the inheritance was mixed with your other funds—perhaps you put it into your shared investment portfolio, for example—then mixing it makes it into a marital asset. But if you kept it separate the entire time, in an account that only you could access, then it remains a separate asset. Debates over large sums of money can certainly become contentious during a divorce, so be sure you know what legal steps to take., Author, Does Divorce Mean you Have to Split Up your Inheritance?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • Creating a parenting time schedule that works for both parents and children alike is one of the most challenging tasks that co-parents need to tackle after a separation or divorce. In California, courts encourage parents to develop custody arrangements that prioritize their child’s best interests while working to ensure that both parents can maintain meaningful relationships with them. However, making a parenting time division schedule work is unquestionably easier said than done.  There is no one-size-fits-all schedule for shared parenting time. The best arrangement for a particular family depends on that family’s needs, priorities and circumstances. With that said, some of the most common parenting time schedules worth considering include:Alternating weeks: The child spends one full week with one parent and the next week with the other. Weekend-focused schedule: If one parent has a demanding work schedule, the child may primarily reside with one parent during the week and spend weekends or extended weekends with the other.2-2-5-5 schedule: The child spends two days with each parent, followed by five days with one parent and then five days with the other. This provides more stability than the 2-2-3 schedule while still allowing frequent transitions.2-2-3 schedule: The child spends two days with one parent, two days with the other, and then three days with the first parent. The following week, the schedule reverses. This allows for frequent contact and can work particularly well for younger children. These are just some of the more common approaches used to divide parenting time. Bespoke agreements are always an option., Author, Making Parenting Time Division Schedules Work, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • Selling a business during a divorce is a common outcome for joint business owners. Perhaps you and your spouse got married 20 years ago and soon after opened a business together. Now that you are getting divorced, you may feel that selling the business and splitting the financial value is the easiest solution. However, don’t assume that this is your only option. Just like with other major assets, such as real estate or the family home, there are alternative solutions worth considering. Take the time to explore what will work best in your situation. Do you want to buy out your spouse’s share? If you want to continue running the business after the divorce, you may be able to buy out your spouse’s ownership share. There are a few ways to do this. You could take out a loan to buy their share, similar to how you would purchase a business from a third party. You could also offer other marital assets in exchange for their share. For example, your spouse may prefer to take the value of your retirement savings, allowing you to retain full ownership of the business. You could then focus on rebuilding your retirement fund in the years to come. Do you want to keep working together? Divorce does not necessarily mean you can’t continue as business partners. If you are going through a high-conflict divorce, you may not want to work together. However, if the divorce is amicable and you both believe keeping the business intact is the best decision, you could draft a partnership agreement and continue operating as co-owners. This could even provide more financial stability for both of you after the divorce. Exploring your options The best course of action depends on your unique situation. Just make sure you understand all of your legal options before making any decisions., Author, You Don’t Have to Sell your Business in Divorce, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • The vast majority of people spend time on social media. If you’re on social media, you may use it to share what’s going on in your life. While this is considered normal, there are certain times when thinking carefully about your social media activity might be necessary. One of these is if you’re going through a divorce. Social media is a challenge during a divorce because the things you say and do on it can be used in the divorce. Because of this, it’s critical that you remain cognizant of what you’re doing.  Should you stay off social media during your divorce? The decision about whether to get off social media or stay active on it is a personal choice. You may opt to go silent until the divorce is finalized. This may include simply staying off social media completely, but you may also opt to deactivate your profiles to remove your social media presence.  What should you do if you stay on social media? If you opt to remain on social media, remember that you should consider everything permanent. Even if you delete a post, comment, picture or something else, there’s a chance that someone took a screenshot of it to give it to your ex. The same is true for anything you’re tagged in or pictures others post about you.  Divorce is a challenging undertaking, so it’s understandable that you’d want to be able to vent about what’s going on. Instead of doing that on social media, you can talk to loved ones or trusted friends about what you’re going through. It may also be beneficial for you to have someone on your side who understands divorce laws and can help you through the legal process to end your marriage., Author, What Should you Know about Social Media during Divorce?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • Becoming empty-nesters is always a major change for parents. They may have spent the last 20 years raising their children, and when the children move out of the house, it is quite a jarring shift. In some cases, this stage in life can trigger a divorce. The couple has been together for decades, but decides to end the marriage. Why would this happen just because the children moved out? 1. Waiting until the children are adults For one thing, many parents intentionally wait until their children are adults before they get divorced. They know that staying married gives the children more stability and a sense of security. They intentionally wait until the kids move out to dissolve the marriage, thinking it will have less of an impact on them. It is important to note, however, that divorce is not always negative for children. In fact, it can be more detrimental for them to live in a high-conflict household as opposed to having divorced parents. Still, this is often one of the reasons parents stay together until they are empty nesters. 2. Discovering marital issues Another common situation is that parents think their relationship is fine, but they discover significant marital issues after the children move out. In reality, being parents took so much time and energy that they simply overlooked the issues in their own marriage. Once the parents are living alone together as a couple, these conflicts and deeper marital problems can become clear, and they may decide to divorce. Getting divorced at this stage in life often means that child custody isn’t an issue, but property division can be more complex. That’s why it’s so important for couples to know what legal options they have., Author, 2 Reasons For an Empty Nest Divorce, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • Child custody is a challenging situation for those who are dealing with a narcissist. This is primarily because you’re having to raise your children with someone who’s very self-absorbed and lives in a world they create for themselves. The very nature of a narcissist makes it challenging for them to parent together because they can only think about what’s best for themselves. There are a few ways that you may be able to reduce the stress of this situation, so consider these options.  Keep communication simple and short Short and simple communication is the hallmark of dealing with a narcissist. Stick to the matters that apply to the children and try to work as quickly toward a resolution as possible. Keeping the discussions in writing is beneficial because that provides a record of what both sides say, which helps if the narcissist starts to lie about the situation. Set and enforce boundaries Boundaries are important when you’re dealing with a narcissist. One example of this is setting up specific times for non-emergency communication. Narcissists will try to push boundaries, so you should stick to them once they’re set.  Avoid all emotional engagement A narcissist thrives on getting emotional reactions out of other people. One of the only ways to prevent them from feeling that power is by controlling your reactions to them. Written communication can stop them from being able to know your reaction, especially if you take the time to review what you said before you send it. Putting everything related to the child custody arrangement into the parenting plan doesn’t leave any room for misrepresentation in the guidelines. Working with someone who understands how to handle these situations may help you to get the plan in order., Author, How to Work with a Narcissist on Child Custody matters, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • There are several different approaches to divorce. Some couples can easily pursue an uncontested divorce because they have previously signed a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement with one another. Other couples may not agree on terms and may not have any kind of contract with one another. In those cases, litigation or contested divorce proceedings may be necessary. There are sometimes options available for those who would like to file an uncontested divorce but do not currently agree on the terms of the divorce. One of the most common solutions for those worried about an upcoming divorce is to attend mediation. Divorce mediation involves working with a neutral professional to discuss marital circumstances and divorce expectations. Couples can potentially resolve their disagreements and pursue an uncontested divorce after mediating their disputes. What are some of the signs that mediation might be a reasonable option for a divorcing company? 1. A need to cooperate in the future Acrimonious divorces aren’t concerning for those who can make a clean break. No matter how intense emotions become, they know they don’t have to interact with their spouses after they finish the process. Not every couple is that fortunate. They may be long to the same church, work for the same company or share children with one another. In cases where divorcing spouses expect to interact with one another regularly, mediation can help them establish a healthier dynamic for the future. 2. Issues related to misconduct Many divorces are not the result of people just growing apart but rather specific complaints related to misconduct. Maybe one spouse hid debt from the other or wasted resources gambling. Maybe there was an extramarital affair, drug use or domestic violence. Those issues can have a direct influence on the appropriate terms for property division and custody. However, people may not want to share all of that incriminating information in family court. Mediation offers a confidential environment in which spouses can discuss their disputes privately to reach reasonable settlements. 3. The need for speed or cost control Sometimes, couples choose to mediate because they don’t want to wait for a trial in family court. It can take months to move forward with a contested divorce, and judges need time to enter a ruling after hearing from both spouses in court. It can be much faster to settle disagreements in mediation and proceed with an uncontested divorce. Limiting the time spent in court can also help control expenses. While a mediator does require payment, the cost of their services may be far less than the cost of litigating disagreements in family court. Those anticipating a likely divorce on the horizon May benefit from learning more about divorce mediation. Successful divorce mediation results in an uncontested divorce with terms set directly by the spouses., Author, 3 Signs that Mediation may be the Best Divorce Solution, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • Relocation is a reality that many military families face, often dictated by the needs of the armed forces. While these moves are essential for service members to fulfill their duties, they can create challenges in divorce cases involving child custody. In San Diego, where many families have ties to the military, the impact of relocation on custodial arrangements is a concern for many divorcing parents. For military parents or former spouses, balancing custody agreements and deployment orders or reassignment can feel overwhelming. Courts aim to prioritize the child’s best interests, but maintaining a stable parenting plan becomes complex when frequent moves or distance is involved. These issues require careful legal consideration to preserve the responsibilities of both parents and the child’s well-being. Legal considerations for relocation and custody  When one parent is required to relocate due to a military assignment, they must seek court approval if the move impacts an existing custody order. Courts in California evaluate several factors before granting a relocation request. These factors include: The distance of the move, The reasons behind it, The potential impact on the child’s relationship with the other parent Parents in San Diego may request modifications to custody arrangements to maintain meaningful contact with their children. Virtual visitation options, like video calls, are frequently used to bridge the gap when military obligations limit physical visits. Frameworks such as the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA) can also resolve jurisdictional disputes when military parents are stationed across state lines. For parents in the Golden State, understanding the legal implications of such moves is essential to protecting parental rights and helping ensure a stable environment for their children. In these situations, working with a legal representative specializing in military divorce can be crucial to help ensure compliance with military and state laws., Author, How Military Assignments Affect Custodial Rights?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • It is certainly true that some military couples can make their relationships last. Plenty of couples have been married for decades, even while one or both partners served. However, statistics show that the military divorce rate is around 4.8%, according to the U.S. Census. This is higher than the average for civilians. Soldiers sometimes talk about receiving a “Dear John” letter—a letter from their spouse informing them that they want to end the relationship while the soldier is deployed. These stats help explain why this cliché exists, as military divorce rates are honestly higher. But why are they higher than civilian divorce rates? Time apart takes a toll A significant reason may simply be that military couples don’t spend as much time together. This isn’t just for service members deployed overseas; even those stationed in the United States may have to go to a different state for training. Military families tend to move frequently, and they don’t necessarily have the stability that civilians enjoy. For example, even among civilian couples, reports show that having a long commute increases divorce rates, simply because it eats into the time couples spend together. Being in the military is highly demanding, and it often has the same effect. Additionally, many military service members marry at a young age, as they may have joined the military at 18. Young marriages also have a higher divorce rate than those in which couples wait until their late 20s or early 30s. For these reasons and more, you may find yourself facing divorce if you’re in the military. This can be complicated, so be sure you know what legal steps to take., Author, Do Military Couples Get Divorced more Often?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • High-asset divorces often present unique challenges, especially when it comes to dividing high-value property. These cases involve significant financial stakes and complex portfolios, including international properties. Determining ownership of international properties In California, courts consider several factors when deciding who gets international properties in a divorce. The courts weigh in on the following factors: Community vs. separate property: Community property acquired during the marriage is typically divided equally. Anything owned before the marriage or acquired as a gift or inheritance falls under separate property and remains with the original owner. Courts also examine the couple’s financial contributions, the property’s purpose (residential or commercial), and any prenuptial agreements in place. Jurisdictional issues may arise, requiring the court to apply international law principles. This can sometimes complicate the process further. California is one of the few community property states, and all properties are divided 50/50 unless there is a prenuptial agreement. Each case is different, and anyone going through a divorce may want to seek help from a legal professional to understand their situation better. How are high-value assets divided? Dividing high-value international assets involves detailed appraisals and evaluations. Accurate valuations are crucial to ensure fair distribution. Courts may require expert testimony to assess the property’s worth accurately. Additionally, tax implications play a significant role. Different countries have varying tax laws, which can affect the division and settlement of assets. Couples must also consider currency exchange rates and potential fluctuations impacting asset value. Taking legal action High-asset divorces can be challenging as they may involve valuable assets and international properties. With the proper legal guidance, individuals can mitigate risks and complications, leading to a smoother divorce process., Author, Beyond Borders: who gets the International Properties After a Divorce?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • People are often unsure about what happens during a California divorce. Some unhappy spouses may worry that they don’t have grounds to file for divorce or enough evidence to convince the courts of their spouses’ misconduct. Thankfully, people don’t actually have to prove fault to qualify for divorce in California. As a no-fault divorce state, California does not require that either spouse establish grounds for divorce. They only have to claim that there has been a permanent and irrevocable breakdown of the marital relationship. That being said, there could well be a history of significant misconduct within the marital relationship. Can proof of misconduct influence the outcome of divorce proceedings in California? Fault rarely affects court decisions Many people preparing for divorce fantasize about receiving vindication from the family courts. They want a judge to acknowledge that their spouse caused the damage to the relationship, possibly by penalizing them when setting terms for the divorce. Unfortunately, those expectations are unrealistic based on California statutes. No-fault divorce doesn’t just protect people from scenarios where they remain trapped in the marriage due to lack of evidence. It also prevents the courts from considering most forms of marital misconduct when making decisions about parental rights, financial support and property division. Even when there is clear proof of abuse or infidelity, judges in California typically cannot consider that bad behavior when making divorce determinations. There are a few exceptions to that basic rule. All custody decisions should prioritize the best interests of the children. A judge may limit the parenting time of a spouse who has a history of abusive behavior in front of or against the children. In scenarios where there have been specific types of financial misconduct, the courts may consider bad behavior when making financial determinations. If one spouse has proof that the other wasted or dissipated marital property, possibly by spending thousands of dollars on an affair, that can influence property division decisions. The California family courts can also penalize spouses who attempt to hide property from the courts and their spouses during the divorce process. Instead of looking to the family courts as a potential source of personal justice, spouses preparing for divorce often need to focus instead on living their best lives after their divorce. Fighting for unrealistic terms can waste time, money and energy. Those who are pragmatic in their approach to divorce can move on more effectively and secure revenge through a life well lived after their divorces., Author, Can Marital Misconduct Influence the Outcome of a Divorce?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • Once parents end their romantic relationship, one parent may move to a new area. That makes it difficult for them to be able to be a constant fixture in their child’s life. While it might be challenging, staying in contact with the kids and building a strong relationship is possible even when there’s a long distance between the parent and the child. If you’re in this situation, there are several things you can do. One of the most important is to be open to finding ways that you can connect with the children.  Make the most of technology Technology makes it easy for parents to stay connected with their children through virtual visits. Video chats, phone calls and text messages are all options that are widely available. You can use these to read books together or talk to them about their day. It might even be possible to play board games or video games with them. Prioritize in-person visits In-person visits should always be a priority in these cases. Try to keep the schedule that’s set. If possible, consider working with your ex to make a surprise trip to see your child if you have a few days off work. Remember, having quality time with your children should be your goal each time you’re with your children. The parenting plan should be set to ensure that the children are able to have contact with both parents. Because this is a long-distance parenting situation, terms must be set for various aspects of the arrangement, such as communication and transportation. Working with someone who’s familiar with these matters is beneficial so you can get these terms set appropriately., Author, Connecting with Kids as a Long-Distance Parent, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • California’s community property law is straightforward. All marital assets are evenly divided, while separate assets remain with the spouse who had them going into the marriage. However, when it comes to high-asset divorces, it’s not unusual for one spouse to attempt to keep more of the marital assets for themselves. What if you suspect your ex-spouse is hiding assets? How can you find out? Ways to hide money For the unethical spouse, there is no shortage of strategies they can employ to hide marital assets. Some of the more common methods include the following: Giving money to family and friends as a gift or helping them to “pay off a loan” with the intent of getting the money back after the divorce is finalized Creating shell companies and moving assets to an offshore account Purchasing luxury items Investing in cryptocurrency Undervaluing assets Deferring raises or bonuses Looking for hidden marital assets may seem like a lost cause. Fortunately, a forensic accountant can help. They use multiple methods to uncover inconsistencies. A forensic accountant will conduct a thorough analysis of financial records, such as bank statements and investments, to look for unusual transactions or patterns. They will do a lifestyle analysis to see if expenditures exceed income. Tax returns also provide information such as deductions or a considerable difference in what was reported in previous years. Hiding assets in a divorce is unethical as well as illegal in California. The guilty spouse may forfeit 100% of the asset’s value if caught. In addition, they will be responsible for the other spouse’s attorney fees and associated court costs. If you are considering a divorce, it’s crucial that you have someone advocating on your behalf. They can help ensure that you receive everything you are entitled to.      , Author, Uncovering Hidden Assets in Divorce, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • One of the first steps in the divorce process is for one person to serve the other a divorce petition. If it is your spouse who has decided to get divorced, they are likely going to serve you this paperwork. It informs you about the upcoming legal process and tells you that they intend to end the marriage. You then have to respond to this paperwork so that the court can get the process underway – scheduling hearings, setting up court dates, etc.  Under California law, you have to respond to the divorce petition in 30 days, in most cases. So you do not have to respond immediately, and you do have time to think over your position and consider the paperwork carefully. But you also should not procrastinate this process or delay the petition just because you don’t want to deal with it. There is a deadline, and you have to respond in some fashion in just one month. What if you never respond? If you fail to respond, your spouse can still get a divorce. They can just ask the court to issue you a default divorce decree. This acknowledges that you are nonresponsive and gives the court the ability to grant the divorce anyway. Allowing this to happen can be detrimental to your position during the divorce. You won’t be involved in the process of splitting up assets or deciding how to divide child custody rights. The court can do all of this without your approval. As you can see, divorce can get complicated, even at the very beginning. Make sure you know exactly what legal steps to take to protect your interests., Author, How Long do you have to Respond to a Divorce Petition in California?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • If you’re considering divorce or believe that your spouse is, you’re likely already aware that California is among the relatively few “community property” states. There’s a lot of confusion around just what means.  People often assume it means that when a couple divorces, each spouse walks away with 50% of their combined assets (and 50% of their combined debt). That’s not exactly the case. Not even all community property states treat property division alike. Let’s take a brief look at what property division in California looks like under the law. Which property is “community” property? Under California law, “marital property” is considered community property, which is split equally under the law. That is anything (with exceptions like individual inheritances or gifts) acquired by either or both spouses individually or jointly throughout their marriage. This includes things like: Wages or other work-related income Interest, dividends and other “passive” income   Property bought with one or both spouses’ income Separate property that’s used to buy, maintain or improve marital property That last one sometimes sneaks up on divorcing spouses. It involves the commingling of separate and marital property. Once it’s commingled, it can legally be considered community property. A simple example would be if a spouse deposited their inheritance in a joint investment account and then the couple used funds from that account to purchase a home. The non-inheriting spouse could potentially seek half of both the account and the home in divorce. (That doesn’t guarantee they would get it, however.), Author, What does it mean to Divide “Community Property” in a Divorce?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • Some parents who go through a divorce can’t stand the thought of talking to each other. Yet, if they share children, they will have to find a way to communicate about things related to their kids. It might be tempting for some to try to use the children as messengers, but that’s never a good idea. Instead, parents should find alternative methods of communication because children can suffer when they’re expected to pass messages between parents. Emotional burden on children When parents use their children to relay messages, the children may feel caught in the middle. This can lead to anxiety, stress and a sense of divided loyalty because they might feel compelled to take sides or interpret messages in a way that pleases both parents. They may also be subjected to harsh reactions from one or both parents that they shouldn’t have to deal with. Conflict avoidance development Using children as go-betweens can teach them unhealthy conflict resolution skills. Instead of learning how to address issues directly and constructively, children may learn to avoid conflict or use indirect methods to manage disagreements. This can hinder their ability to develop effective communication skills. Misunderstandings Children may not fully understand the messages they’re supposed to be passing from one parent to the other. They may not be able to remember the entire message. This could lead to them relaying incorrect information, which can cause misunderstandings between their parents. Impact on parent-child relationship When children are used as messengers, it can negatively impact their relationship with both parents. They may begin to feel like pawns in their parents’ disputes rather than loved children. This can take away the trust and the sense of security they need from their parents. Even if there’s a contentious parenting relationship, both adults will have to find suitable communication options. They should be covered in their parenting plan so there’s no room for misinterpretation about what’s expected. Working with a legal representative may help these parents to get applicable points clearly established in a parenting plan accordingly., Author, The Dangers of Using Kids as Messengers Between Parents, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • You and your spouse have been having marital troubles and you have believed for months that you were headed for divorce. Your spouse finally goes ahead and gets the divorce petition, serving you the papers to let you know that the process is underway. You are not necessarily surprised, and you may even support the divorce. But what does surprise you is that your spouse says you’ll now have to leave the house because there’s no way the two of you can live together during the divorce process. While you do understand that this is going to strain your relationship, can your spouse actually kick you out of your own house? Only if they are the sole owner This can normally only happen in cases where one person owns the house and the other does not. For instance, maybe your spouse bought the house before the two of you got married and already owned it. You moved in after the marriage, so you’re not a legal owner. As the owner of that property, your spouse can ask you to leave. For many couples, though, this is not at all how things are set up. They got married first and then jointly bought the home. If that’s your situation, then your spouse cannot kick you out of the house. You also have a legal right to keep living there since your name is on the title. Things could get very complicated moving forward, especially if the two of you end up in a long-term conflict about where you should live. As you go through the divorce, take the time to consider all of your legal options to protect your rights – such as the right to property or other assets that you own jointly with your spouse., Author, Your Spouse Asks you to Leave. Do you Have To?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • All major human events seem to be celebrated with some sort of gathering – except, maybe, divorce. Historically speaking, divorce was seen as something shameful and a taboo topic, but that’s changing. “Divorce parties” have become a trend amongst the newly single – and divorce is being reframed socially and emotionally as an opportunity for a fresh start. What better way to mark the transition point than with a celebration? It’s a great way to reclaim your identity and reframe the situation with a positive narrative. What is a divorce party? Typically, these are small celebrations with close friends – although some folks have chosen to hold larger, more elaborate events. Typically, these are “anti-weddings” with themes that focus on symbolic gestures – like burning your wedding photos or destroying the dress. For many, it’s a chance to turn a painful experience into something positive, providing a sense of closure.  It’s also an opportunity to shift one’s focus to a brighter, better future. Instead of seeing divorce as an “ending” or a “failure,” you can look at the divorce as a new beginning and a time of personal empowerment. Are there any caveats? Don’t jump the gun. Wait until the ink is dry on your divorce decree before you hold a celebration. Here’s why: You don’t want to antagonize your ex: If you start celebrating before the final agreements are in place, you may set off a war with your ex-spouse and find yourself back at the negotiating table. You do not want to provoke unnecessary conflicts. You need to consider the optics: If your marriage and divorce were particularly volatile, you may really be looking forward to celebrating – but you need to consider how a celebration may look to your children (whether they’re teens or adults), relatives and others. Take the time to decide just how public you want your celebration to be. You need emotional clarity: You don’t want to celebrate until you’re in the right headspace. Once you have worked through your grief and anger over the situation and have true acceptance, you’ll have more genuine reason to celebrate and move on. If you’re ready to end your marriage, the wisest move you can make is to seek experienced legal guidance as early as possible. There’s time for everything else to come., Author, Should you hold a Divorce Party?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • Going through a divorce can often be a stressful process, even if things between you and your ex are amicable. If you’re one of the people who has the unfortunate experience of divorcing a narcissist, the situation is even more complex. A person who’s a narcissist is selfish. They’re unable to think about anyone else and live in a world that only makes sense to them. However, these individuals can also be very charismatic and deceptive, which makes going through the divorce even more challenging.  Emotions are fuel for a narcissist Most narcissists need to feel like they’re in control. They have to feel powerful. One way they do this is to try to invoke emotions in others. As you’re going through the divorce, you can take away this possibility by putting up a wall and employing the gray rock method. This means that you don’t show any reactions to them no matter what they do. It may be easier to do this if you communicate through written or electronic methods when discussions have to occur. Your legal representative can also be your contact point. Reality doesn’t always matter to a narcissist A narcissist doesn’t see reality like others. They often live a life of lies. Because of this, you may find yourself battling against a skilled liar. Keeping proof of everything you do and everything that’s said is beneficial in these cases.  Protecting your interests is always a concern when you’re going through a divorce. It can be much more difficult to do this when your ex is a narcissist. Working with someone who can stand firm to assist you as you go through this process may help to reduce your stress. , Author, Points to Remember when Divorcing a Narcissist, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • All divorces have the potential for complications, but the stakes can rise exponentially when public profiles and substantial assets are involved. If you’re trying to navigate a high-profile, high-asset divorce, opting for a private judge can be worth every penny that they cost. Here’s why: There is enhanced confidentiality One of the most compelling reasons to hire a private judge is to maintain your privacy. When you have a high public profile, you may find your personal life heavily scrutinized. Court proceedings are typically public, and that means sensitive details about your finances, assets and the reasons for your divorce can become fodder for news machines. Hiring a private judge takes your divorce out of the public eye and into a confidential setting.   The schedule can be more flexible The regular court’s busy schedule can have your divorce moving along at a snail’s pace and leave you frustrated – especially if you have a complicated professional and personal life. Private judges typically dedicate more attention to a case, which leads to faster resolutions. In addition, they will usually make an effort to accommodate both party’s needs for flexibility in the schedule. There’s more control over the process You and your spouse have to agree on a private judge, and that means you can choose someone that you both believe will be fair. You may also want to select your judge with an eye toward their experience and understanding of complicated financial issues. A judge who can appreciate the nuances of your financial situation may be better able to make equitable decisions than the typical family court judge. While the upfront cost of hiring a private judge for your divorce can be significant, the efficiency and privacy that they bring to the process can reduce the odds that you’ll end up in prolonged litigation, and that alone can make them a bargain.        , Author, Is a Private Judge Worth the Money?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • When facing the financial strain of a divorce, accepting money from family might seem like a helpful solution. However, this can be risky, especially in a community property state like California. Knowing about the possible hazards can prevent divorce and marital property complications if you take the money your parents offer. How is accepting the money risky? In community property states, assets acquired during marriage are considered joint property and subject to 50/50 division upon divorce. Unless the money your parents give is clearly documented as a gift for you exclusively, it will be counted as marital property and split between both spouses. Taking a few steps can shield the gift from property division. Have a written agreement between you and your parents stating that the money is a gift to you separately and not to both spouses. Deposit the money into a separate bank account solely in your name to avoid mixing the funds with marital assets. Keep clear records of the transaction, including any correspondence (emails, texts, etc.) with your parents about the gift. Another risk is that the gift could increase your income, potentially impacting alimony and child support calculations. You may end up receiving less or paying more in support, depending on where you stand, due to the gift. Although a financial gift can provide economic relief during a divorce, knowing the possible risks can help you decide whether to accept or decline.  A legal representative can help you make this decision and offer guidance on using gifted money in a way that does not threaten your divorce position., Author, Should you Accept Money From your Parents during your Divorce?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • Co-parenting after divorce forms an important foundation for the well-being and stability of the children involved. One of the co-parenting plans that parents may choose is birdnesting, where parents take turns living in the family home with the children while the other parent resides elsewhere. While this strategy may initially seem beneficial in maintaining stability and minimizing disruption for the children, there are several reasons it may not be a good idea. It is expensive Birdnesting may strain the financial resources of both parents, as it requires maintaining multiple living spaces. The costs associated with maintaining the family home, in addition to providing separate accommodations for each parent during their off-duty periods, can quickly add up. This financial burden may not be sustainable in the long term, especially if one or both parents are already facing financial constraints post-divorce. It can erode boundaries Post-divorce boundaries are crucial for both parents to establish their independence and move forward with their lives. However, birdnesting can erode these boundaries by blurring the lines between the parents’ personal lives and responsibilities. When parents continue to share a living space, even on a rotating basis, it can become challenging to establish clear boundaries regarding privacy, decision-making and personal time. This lack of distinct boundaries can lead to increased conflict, resentment and difficulty in co-parenting effectively. It can be confusing for the children Children may find it hard to cope with the constant flux and uncertainty of birdnesting. While the intention behind this arrangement is to provide stability by keeping the children in a familiar environment, the reality can be confusing and unsettling for them. Having their parents come and go from the family home on a rotating basis may create a sense of instability and inconsistency in their lives.  Legal guidance may be helpful in determining the best approach to co-parenting, as it can provide better clarity on the legal implications and obligations of birdnesting, as well as offer alternative co-parenting arrangements that may better suit the needs and circumstances of the family.    , Author, Why "Birdnesting" may Not be a Good Idea?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • Most people do not think much about the timing of their divorce. Once they decide they want out of the marriage, they tend to want to get it over and done with as quickly as possible.  Yet timing things wrong could prove incredibly costly if you are wealthy. Here are some of the things to think about: The tax year The date of your divorce could affect your ability to choose between filing a joint tax return and two separate ones. The divorce will also affect what assets you have and must therefore declare. Sometimes it is better for one or both parties if you delay the divorce or delay certain actions related to the divorce such as selling the family home. The changing value of assets Let’s say you own a business and while your spouse does not want any part of it they will expect compensation for allowing you to keep it all. If you divorce when your business is riding high, you may need to pay them far more than if you divorce when things are going less well. If you can see that business is likely to do much better or worse in the near future, that might influence you to rush ahead with your divorce or to hold off a little. The valuation date Each state chooses how it picks a date to value a couple’s assets in a divorce. If you are divorcing in California it will be “as near as practicable to the time of trial” but it is sometimes possible to move that for some or all of the assets with prior notice. Learning more about the legal implications of a divorce can help you time it better., Author, Reasons to Time your High-Asset Divorce Well, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • You and your spouse are both employed when you decide to get a divorce. However, due to the specifics of the divorce – such as how parenting time is allocated or if there is a major discrepancy in your earnings – you are ordered to pay child support. You have a fairly good job so the payments are affordable for you, and you make them for the first few years. But then you lose your job. It’s nothing that you did wrong and it’s not your fault. Maybe the company just downsizes during an economic recession and your job is eliminated. No matter why you lost the position, you can no longer afford the child support payments. Are they automatically canceled because you don’t have any income? Can you just stop paying? The order needs to be modified No, you cannot stop paying. The court order mandates that you make those payments on time, and it still stands, even if you’ve lost your job. You are legally obligated to follow that order until it is modified or a new order is issued. Of course, losing your job may make your payments impossible. At a time like this, you may need to approach the court and ask for a modification or ask them to consider issuing a brand-new order. All of this is possible, but you need to take the proper legal steps. Don’t just stop making your payments, assuming that you don’t have to pay while you are unemployed. Child support issues can often cause disputes between co-parents. If you’re going through this complex process, carefully consider all of the legal options you have, along with your parental obligations., Author, Can you Stop Paying Child Support if you Lose your Job?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • If you’re married to a servicemember, it’s important to know which military-related benefits can continue once your divorce is final and which will end. This can help you take stock of what you’ll need to be on solid financial ground as you begin life as a single person again. One of those benefits is health insurance. You’re likely covered under your spouse’s TRICARE plan. If you have children, they probably are as well. While children can continue under their servicemember parent’s plan until they age out, that’s not necessarily the case for former spouses. Continued eligibility depends on three factors: the length of your marriage (up until the divorce decree), the length of their retirement-creditable military service and the overlap between those two periods. The 20/20/20 and 20/20/15 rules If those three factors listed above all are at least 20 years, your situation falls under the 20/20/20 rule. That means you can continue to receive health insurance through TRICARE until and unless you remarry. You will need to get your own plan, however. If those first two factors are at least 20 years, but the overlap between them is under 20 years (and at least 15), you can continue TRICARE coverage under your own plan for one year after the divorce is finalized. What if neither of those rules applies? If your marriage and/or your spouse’s service don’t fall under either of those rules, there’s an option for continued insurance coverage called the Continued Health Care Benefit Program (CHCBP). The purpose is to give servicemember spouses time to get new coverage whenever their TRICARE coverage ends. If you’re considering CHCBP because you don’t have access to an employer-sponsored plan, it might be wise to compare the price and coverage with that of plans available at CoveredCA.com. While health insurance may not be at the top of your list of concerns as you prepare for divorce, you don’t want to end up without coverage. Further, it’s crucial to factor in the cost of your health insurance – wherever you get it – to your overall post-divorce budget. This will help you to make informed decisions when it comes to spousal support, asset division and other negotiations., Author, TRICARE and Divorce: What Military Spouses Need to Know, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • Social stigma is still sometimes a deterrent to divorce. While there is much less social concern about divorce now than there was decades ago, people can still face a degree of judgment after the end of a marriage. Particularly when there is reason to claim that misconduct contributed to the end of a marriage, people may worry about the information disclosed to others during California divorce proceedings. Many divorces involve litigation, which means that spouses have to address the end of the marriage in the family courts. Some couples instead undergo mediation and then present a signed agreement to the courts for an uncontested divorce. Mediation is confidential, which allows couples to negotiate privately. Concerns about privacy, like the three issues below, may motivate people to pursue a mediated divorce instead of a litigated one. Worries about the children What spouses disclose about marital conduct in family court can affect the relationships that they have with their children in the future. For example, children who overhear testimony about marital misconduct may begin to judge one parent and blame them for the divorce. Even children who have avoided that information in the past might seek out family court records when they become adults to learn more about what altered their family circumstances. The desire to keep certain information away from children may lead to people negotiating divorce matters in a confidential mediation setting. A desire for financial privacy Disclosures of marital resources are an important element of the divorce process. Each spouse has the right to discovery, which essentially means they should receive thorough and accurate financial information from one another. They may also need to provide those details to the courts, which can lead to public awareness of their income or personal holdings. Addressing property division, financial support and custody matters in mediation can help people keep the details of their finances private. The need to protect a high-profile career Maybe someone is a car sales professional who runs a small dealership. Their reputation for integrity and honesty is a key component to their continued success. Disclosing unsavory details about their personal conduct in family court could damage their reputation and affect their career. Anyone in a position to face scrutiny from the public, especially those in high-profile professions, may want to keep their family law matters as private as possible. Mediation offers a host of benefits beyond just confidentiality. Spouses have more control over the process. They can reduce what they pay to divorce and may even be able to end the marriage more quickly. As such, those familiar with the benefits of divorce mediation can make more informed choices as they prepare for the end of a marriage., Author, 3 Reasons why Divorce Mediation can Benefit a Need for Privacy, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2025
  • So much depends on money that it is no surprise that it can affect a marriage. And that often the effect is negative and can result in a divorce. Here are some reasons money could lead to a divorce: Spouses hold different attitudes toward money Some people like saving every last cent. Others have much more difficulty doing this as they have a tendency to spend. That can lead to conflict, as one spouse may feel the other’s spending jeopardizes their future financial security. The other may feel their spouse’s insistence on scrimping and saving harms the ability to enjoy the present. Spouses do not have enough money Enough is a subjective term, but if you are struggling to pay your bills, then it’s probable that money could be causing tension both personally and jointly. Constant worries about how to stay above water can be draining, perhaps even affecting mental health. It can lead to a situation where neither spouse is at their best. They might blame each other for their money worries – perhaps one thinks the other should work more or should never have given up that well-paid job, even though it made them unhappy. All this can lead to arguments, guilt or resentment, none of which promotes a healthy relationship. Spouses feel other family members are not their financial responsibility Your father-in-law is ill and does not have the financial means to pay for the treatment themself. Your spouse wants to use your joint savings to help them. You are not against helping, but you know that doing so would mean waving goodbye to the chance of buying a house. It’s the sort of difficult decision many couples have to deal with, and there is no easy answer. If differences over money have led to divorce, be sure to get legal help to protect your financial interests going forward., Author, 3 Ways that Money can Contribute to a Divorce, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • California is a community property state, which means that spouses who are divorcing generally share equal ownership interests in any assets acquired during the marriage. This approach covers both material and immaterial assets, including bonds and stocks owned by more affluent couples. In a high-asset divorce case, the assets that are part of a marital household are typically worth several million dollars or more. Dividing up assets can be challenging if there is no prenuptial agreement. Valuing assets like real estate, stock options, art collections, jewels and corporate interests can complicate divorce proceedings. However, there are ways to minimize some of the stress associated with the process. How to ease the stress of high-asset divorce Knowledge is power. And power can minimize stress. As such, if you’re divorcing a high-asset situation, you’ll want to take an inventory of all your shared marital assets. Enlisting the help of an accountant can help ensure that nothing is overlooked. They can also work with your legal team to uncover any hidden assets that your spouse may have kept secret, and can also address tax-related matters while calculating the total worth of your assets. If you own collectibles or are unsure of the value of any of your properties or assets, you should consider hiring an appraiser. Because the market value of items such as artwork, collectibles, expensive automobiles and jewelry changes frequently, it is critical to have them evaluated regularly, especially if you are going through a divorce. Recognize that dividing highly valuable marital assets will take time. Things may become tricky when one partner refuses to sell an item. In order to fairly divide assets, your bank accounts, trust funds, retirement savings and 401(k) will all be closely examined. It’s important to be patient and clear about your expectations while splitting assets. Careful planning and constant supervision are necessary in high-asset divorces to better ensure that each partner receives an equitable share of the assets. Therefore, you’ll want to seek assistance with the  process as soon as possible., Author, High-Asset Divorces can be Complicated, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • When couples feel financial stress, it increases the odds of divorce. This is part of the reason that losing a job can make it more likely that a marriage will end. Not having an income, or seeing a significant reduction in income, puts financial stress on the couple. Conversely, this may lead people to believe that the very wealthy have low divorce odds. If you and your spouse are millionaires, does that mean that you are less likely to split up because you’re not going to face that type of financial stress? The opposite is true Some studies claim that wealth actually increases the odds of divorce. There are two potential reasons for this. The first reason is that wealthy couples don’t feel that they have to stay together just to be able to pay their bills and have financial security. Both people know that they will be financially secure either way. If they want to end the marriage, then, they don’t feel any pressure to stay in it against their will. Couples in lower income brackets are often dependent on one another, so getting divorced is financially risky. The second reason is that millionaires can certainly face plenty of financial stress. They may have more money, but they also likely have higher expenses. They can still get into conflicts about whether or not they should spend or save. Couples in every income bracket are going to run into disputes about money, and those disputes can lead to divorce. However, when wealthy couples get divorced, the financial side of property division is often much more complex. If you’re in this position, you need to be sure you understand exactly what legal steps to take.  , Author, Are Millionaires Less Likely to Get Divorced?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • Most people think custody proceedings only involve deciding where a child resides and at what times. However, there is more to it than that. In litigated custody matters, the court must also define both parents’ authority and obligation to make significant decisions about their child’s upbringing, otherwise known as legal custody.California law generally prefers when both parents are involved in a child’s upbringing. As such, regardless of whether you’re negotiating custody or if you’re navigating a contested custody situation, there are high chances you will share legal custody of your children, and it helps to understand your parental role and rights in such situations. You and your co-parent must consult each other on key decisions Shared legal custody means both parents have the right and responsibility to make important decisions about their child’s life. These decisions often revolve around crucial aspects of the child’s welfare, including education, healthcare and religious upbringing. Therefore, your co-parent must consult you before making a major decision affecting your child’s life if you share legal custody unless it’s a medical emergency where quick intervention is needed. They can also expect the same kind of consideration from you. Shared legal custody also gives you the right to access the child’s records, such as medical and school records, and to be informed about significant events in their life (and vice versa). Enforcing your custodial rights under shared legal custody If your co-parent is not consulting you on major decisions or is not honoring your legal custody rights, you may take legal action to enforce these rights. Remember to document the incidents to ensure you have sufficient evidence to prove your claims. Seeking legal guidance to understand your rights and options can help you make informed decisions to protect your place in  Most people think custody proceedings only involve deciding where a child resides and at what times. However, there is more to it than that. In litigated custody matters, the court must also define both parents’ authority and obligation to make significant decisions about their child’s upbringing, otherwise known as legal custody.California law generally prefers when both parents are involved in a child’s upbringing. As such, regardless of whether you’re negotiating custody or if you’re navigating a contested custody situation, there are high chances you will share legal custody of your children, and it helps to understand your parental role and rights in such situations. You and your co-parent must consult each other on key decisions Shared legal custody means both parents have the right and responsibility to make important decisions about their child’s life. These decisions often revolve around crucial aspects of the child’s welfare, including education, healthcare and religious upbringing. Therefore, your co-parent must consult you before making a major decision affecting your child’s life if you share legal custody unless it’s a medical emergency where quick intervention is needed. They can also expect the same kind of consideration from you. Shared legal custody also gives you the right to access the child’s records, such as medical and school records, and to be informed about significant events in their life (and vice versa). Enforcing your custodial rights under shared legal custody If your co-parent is not consulting you on major decisions or is not honoring your legal custody rights, you may take legal action to enforce these rights. Remember to document the incidents to ensure you have sufficient evidence to prove your claims. Seeking legal guidance to understand your rights and options can help you make informed decisions to protect your place in your child's life.  , Author, What Does Shared Legal Custody Entail?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • It doesn’t take physical intimacy to have an affair. An emotional affair is a connection between two individuals that goes somewhat beyond the norms of a platonic friendship – creating an “emotional intimacy” that mimics the closeness most people have in their marriages. They can be just as damaging (or maybe more so) than physical affairs due to the depths of the betrayal involved. How do emotional affairs start? Emotional affairs can start in social groups, support groups, the workplace or online. Your spouse’s “gaming buddy” or “work spouse” can threaten your marriage just as much as an online friend – although there’s no question that a lot of emotional affairs start with social media connections. However, emotional affairs don’t happen in a vacuum. Several factors contribute to the development of an emotional affair, including: Poor communication between spouses: Emotional affairs often arise when one or both partners in a marriage feel emotionally unfulfilled, unheard or unsupported. A need for companionship: Sometimes an emotional affair starts because one spouse has gotten lonely. They may feel like the other spouse is disinterested in the hobbies and activities that matter to them. A need for validation: When someone cannot find validation in their marriage, they may look outside to get the appreciation and support they need in their career or other aspects of their life. Emotional affairs are a huge violation of trust. The secrecy and emotional intimacy shared with an emotional affair partner can lead to a total breakdown of that basic building block in a marriage. As emotional affairs intensify, the spouse having the affair may compare their spouse with their affair partner – and find their spouse lacking. This eventually leads the spouse in an affair to further direct their energy and time away from their spouse. If there’s no coming back from your spouse’s emotional affair, the most important thing you can do is prioritize your own mental, physical and financial well-being. Learning more about your rights in a divorce can make it easier., Author, How Emotional Affairs Lead to Divorce, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • On Behalf of Prager Jones | Mar 27, 2024 | Child Custody | You’ve been searching for a new job ever since your divorce, and you’re open to looking for opportunities outside of California. You’ve recently been offered an excellent position. It would be a major life change, as it is based in New York City, but you’re wondering if you should take it. Professional considerations aside, you may be worried about what your custody arrangement means for your ability to move. For instance, maybe you and your ex share custody of your children, with the children switching off between your two homes every week. Can you still move out of California and take this new job? Modifying the court order It is possible to move after a divorce, even when you share custody. However, if you’re planning to move some distance, you’ll need to have the court order modified. Otherwise, you are still obligated to make those weekly exchanges with your ex. If moving to New York would make that impossible, it could be a violation of your ex’s parental rights. It could hinder both of your relationships with the children. That said, the court does understand that people sometimes have to move and need to modify their custody arrangements. The court just wants to see a good-faith reason to do so, and taking a new job is one example. Others include moving closer to extended family members or going back to school. No matter what your reason, the key is to modify the arrangement in advance so that you don’t put your own custody rights in jeopardy. Be sure you know exactly what legal steps to take to improve your chances of getting the modification you’re seeking., Author, Can you Relocate for Work if you Share Custody?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • A prenuptial agreement, or prenup as it’s commonly known, is a legal contract that couples sign before getting married. It generally specifies how they will divide their assets, debts and income in case of divorce, although this is certainly not the only reason why these documents are drawn up. If you are contemplating a prenup, you may question its potential effectiveness in protecting your financial interests and avoiding future conflicts in the event of a divorce. Will it really make a difference in the outcome of your divorce settlement? Here is what you need to know. A valid prenup is enforceable in court It’s helpful to understand that a prenup is a legal contract that must be executed correctly. Mistakes can invalidate your prenup, leaving you exposed during a divorce. For instance, it must be executed in writing, voluntarily signed by both parties well before the marriage and notarized.  Full disclosure is also required when creating a prenup and its terms must be fair or reasonable for a legally binding agreement. When done right, a prenuptial agreement will guide the property division process of your divorce. The judge presiding over the divorce will implement the terms of your prenup when divvying up assets and liabilities instead of relying on state laws. This can significantly streamline your divorce and avoid lengthy legal battles, not to mention the certainty and control it’ll give you over the proceedings. A prenup can undoubtedly be a powerful tool for managing your financial matters in the event of a divorce. However, its effectiveness hinges on how well it was crafted and continues to align with the ever-changing legal landscape. Reaching out for qualified guidance can help you create a comprehensive document that will stand the legal test and serve its intended purpose if the time comes., Author, How Effective is a Prenuptial Agreement in California?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • Under community property laws in California, spouses usually need to divide whatever they accumulated during a marriage if they divorce unless they agree to other arrangements. Regardless of who earned more money or whose name is on the ownership paperwork for assets, both spouses may have an interest in what either spouse earned or acquired during the marriage. Securing a fair portion of the marital estate in a California divorce requires that someone know the full extent of the marital estate. Generally, someone needs to identify what assets belong to the marital estate. They may also need to determine what those assets are currently worth. Individuals preparing for divorce in California may even want to work with professionals to obtain an accurate valuation of certain assets to ensure an appropriate property division outcome. For example, the following assets often require special attention and careful valuation during divorce proceedings. A family home Married couples sometimes commit as much as 30% of their monthly income toward mortgage payments. The longer the marriage lasted and the more years people have lived in the home, the greater the amount of equity they may have accrued. Price appreciation is also an important consideration. Obtaining an appraisal is often important before a divorce, as the value of the home may have shifted substantially since the spouses first purchased it. A small business or professional practice Perhaps one spouse has a license to work as a professional accountant and runs a small professional practice handling payroll matters and income tax filings. Maybe the spouses started a small retail shop together. A business owned jointly by the spouses or even held by one spouse is likely at least partially marital property. Spouses may need to negotiate to determine an appropriate valuation and to establish how much of the business or practice is marital property and how much might be separate property. Prestige items Perhaps one spouse has an affinity for designer handbags and has accumulated dozens of them during the marriage. Maybe one spouse has a hobby of rebuilding classic cars. While the other spouse may have no interest in claiming someone’s art collection or wardrobe, high-value personal property can still be part of the marital estate. Determining what someone’s collection or tools are worth can be important for the fairness of the final property division settlement. Those who have an accurate understanding of what assets in the marital estate are worth may have an easier time when negotiating property division matters with their spouses. As such, taking the time to properly value marital property can be an important step during a high-asset California divorce., Author, 3 Marital Assets that may Require Careful Valuation before Divorce, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • In some cases, you can identify life events that increase your odds of divorce. This doesn’t guarantee that divorce will happen, but it does mean that it is more likely for you at that time. This can be helpful because it gives you a chance to plan ahead and get things in order. You may need to gather documentation or consider your legal options. So what are some life events that may mean it’s time to start thinking about the end of your marriage? Losing your job Some studies have found that people who lose their job are more likely to get divorced. This could be due to financial instability. Losing a job could create financial stress, meaning that your spouse may file for a divorce as it means to alleviate that stress. Getting sick Other studies have looked at sickness or serious illness and found that some couples are more likely to get divorced when one of them is diagnosed. Specifically, there seems to be an increase in the divorce rate in heterosexual marriages when the wife gets sick – but not necessarily when the husband is the one who suffers from the ailment. Becoming empty nesters Finally, there has been a rise in gray divorce over the last decade. One reason for this is that many couples become empty nesters when their children move out of the house, often when they go to college. This can cause serious changes to the couple’s personal relationship, and that may lead to divorce. Some couples discover that they have been drifting apart but their children were enough of a distraction that they didn’t notice it before. If you and your spouse do decide to get a divorce this year, that means it’s time to look into all of the proper legal steps to take regarding property division, allocation of parenting time and much more., Author, 3 Things that Make Divorce More Likely, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • Divorce can be a lot for a family to handle. Eventually, your children will learn about the divorce. As a parent, you may be struggling with the idea of how to talk to your children about the news before they learn it from someone else.  Talking to your children about divorce shouldn’t be difficult. Here are three things to keep in mind:: 1. Choose your timing carefully The biggest issue many parents face as they discuss their divorce with their children is deciding when the appropriate time is to break the news. The fear is often that talking about the divorce at the wrong time will leave a lasting impression on a child.  Many parents  find it best to talk to their children together, when they know that their children will have some time to absorb the information without being pressured by school or other activities. 2. Choose your words even more carefully A divorce is a complicated matter between adults. Your children don’t need to know the details. You may want to be honest about why the divorce is happening – but without casting blame on either parent. It’s enough to say that you simply don’t work well as a married couple. Additionally, it may help your children understand the matter if you talk about the future after your divorce so that they have some answers to their most pressing questions. 3. Expect your children to need some time Once you discuss your divorce with your children, you may not know what to expect. Depending on your children’s ages, they may react differently. It may help to give your children space after the talk so that they can process the news, but you may also want to remind your children that you’re there for them. It can also help to be open when your children have questions.  You may not know what to say to your children until you know more about your divorce. Reaching out for legal help can make it easier to navigate your divorce options.   , Author, 3 Things to Consider as you Tell Your Children About your Divorce, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • Court-issued child custody orders are not designed to last forever. Circumstances change over time, and a custody arrangement initially ordered by the court may eventually no longer suit its intended purpose of serving a child’s best interests. Therefore, you can likely seek a modification of existing child custody orders as a concerned parent if you think that doing so will facilitate your child’s well-being. Here is what you need to know if your co-parent objects to the changes that you believe should be implemented. Establish a material change in circumstances You cannot seek a contested modification of the current child custody orders just because you desire a change. You must demonstrate that the requested modification is necessitated by a significant change in circumstances that impact the child’s well-being. It could be because of a parent’s relocation, changes in the child’s needs, health or either parent’s living situation, for example. Either way, you must present supporting evidence for a successful custody modification petition. Such evidence may include medical and financial reports, communication records, witness statements and even school reports, among others. Providing documentation of the change in circumstances that affect your child’s welfare enhances the credibility of your case, and assists the court in making an informed decision. Attempt an amicable resolution Before heading to court, California courts often require parents to attempt mediation unless the circumstances don’t allow for it. A neutral third party can act as a bridge between you and your co-parent to reach a mutually agreeable solution on the way forward. Mediation can be a productive way to address individual concerns and find common ground without the emotional and financial costs of litigation. File your modification petition in court If mediation doesn’t bear fruit or is impractical, the next step is filing a petition with the court. A judge will hear and determine the matter based on the evidence and arguments presented. Ultimately, the child’s best interests will inform the outcome of your modification petition. Seeking legal guidance from the outset is crucial. It can help you understand your parental rights and build a solid case, significantly boosting the chances of a desirable outcome., Author, What do you need to Modify Child Custody Orders in California?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2024
  • The dissipation of assets refers to the unjustified spending or wasting of marital property amidst a divorce. For instance, you may notice short-term spending sprees on luxury items or sudden extravagant expenses by your spouse before the divorce process begins or even during it. How will this affect you? Well, California is a community property state. This means marital assets are typically divided equally between the spouses after a divorce. Therefore, your rightful share of the marital estate will shrink when this happens. Beware of these signs of asset dissipation Recognizing the signs of asset dissipation can help you protect your financial interests and ensure a fair distribution of assets. Here are key signs to watch out for: Selling assets significantly below their market value Large cash withdrawals without a clear purpose or explanation Hidden or undisclosed financial accounts or investments Transferring funds to family members or close associates Unexplained withdrawals or transfers from joint accounts Unusual depletion of savings or investment accounts Discrepancies or inconsistencies in financial records or statements Generally, any financial activity that deviates significantly from established norms or patterns can signal something is amiss. Swift action can help avert a financial disaster post-divorce, when it may be too late to undo the damage if you delay taking action. Take proactive steps to protect your financial interests First, maintain meticulous records of all financial transactions and assets, especially during and the months preceding the divorce. Carefully scrutinize financial records to uncover hidden or manipulated financial information. Documentation is key as it serves as crucial evidence when substantiating dissipation claims. Most importantly, seek experienced legal guidance to understand your options, help build your case and strategize your approach to safeguard your rights and interests throughout the divorce., Author, Watch Out for the Dissipation of Marital Assets during a Divorce, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • When couples go through a divorce, the division of their retirement accounts may become a matter of concern. These accounts are often substantial and can significantly impact the property division process. Two key concepts that often come into play when division of retirement accounts are at issue are the transfer incident to divorce and the qualified domestic relations order (QDRO). Transfer incident to divorce Transfer incident to divorce refers to the tax-free transfer of retirement account assets between spouses as a part of divorce proceedings. Under the U.S. tax code, when a portion of a retirement account is transferred to a spouse or former spouse as part of a divorce decree, the recipient typically doesn’t have to pay income tax on this transfer. It’s essential to ensure that the transfer is directly related to the divorce and is detailed in the divorce agreement or decree to avoid unintended tax consequences. Qualified domestic relations order A QDRO is a legal document typically used in divorces to divide assets in employer-sponsored retirement plans, such as 401(k)s and pension plans. It is a court order that recognizes the right of a spouse, former spouse, child or other dependents to receive a predetermined portion of the account holder’s retirement plan. The QDRO must contain specific information, including the amount or percentage of the plan’s benefits to be paid to the alternate payee, which is the spouse who is receiving the portion of the retirement benefits, and how this amount will be determined. The court and the retirement plan’s administrator must approve the order. One critical element of QDROs is that they can allow the receiving spouse to access funds without the early withdrawal penalties that typically apply to individuals younger than 59½. However, regular income tax may still apply to distributions. Both of these methods require careful adherence to legal and tax regulations to ensure that the division is carried out correctly and to avoid unnecessary taxes and penalties. It’s a good idea for individuals going through a divorce to seek legal guidance accordingly.      , Author, What happens to Retirement Accounts during Divorce?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • As the new year approaches, an opportunity for reflection and renewal presents itself quite obviously. This period of fresh beginnings is not just for personal resolutions but can also be an ideal time for co-parents to revisit and review their parenting plans. A parenting plan, often established during a separation or divorce, outlines how parents will raise their children. There are a few reasons why reviewing this plan at the start of a new year can be particularly beneficial as co-parents are looking ahead. Making this effort is important If you co-parent your children with your ex, you may be more acutely aware than most that as children grow, their needs, interests and routines evolve. What worked for you and your co-parent last year might not be as effective now. The new year is a perfect checkpoint to assess what has been changing and to adjust your parenting plan accordingly. This could involve tweaking parenting time schedules, considering new educational needs or incorporating new extracurricular activities into your overall plan of action. Just as individuals set personal resolutions, parents can set goals for their parenting as a new year dawns as well. This might include fostering a particular aspect of their child’s development, improving communication between co-parents or creating more quality family time. If adjustments to a parenting plan need to be made to foster these new goals, now is the time to talk about that reality with your co-parent. Finally, keep in mind that regular reviews of your parenting plan can foster a greater sense of consistency and stability for you, your co-parent and your child. Making this effort helps to ensure that all parties are clear about expectations and responsibilities, reducing the potential for conflicts or misunderstandings during the year to come. , Author, Why review your parenting plan as the New Year dawns?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • When parents get divorced, they have to set up a custody schedule. In many cases, this means that both adults will split up parenting time with their children, as the child lives with each parent in turn. It’s very common for both parents to have their own homes and for the children to move between them in accordance with the schedule. Birdnesting turns this obligation around. The children don’t have to move, but they always get to live in the same home. The parents will move in and out in accordance with the schedule, with one parent having custody while they live in the home and then switching places with the other parent as they trade off custody.   What are the benefits? There are some benefits for children in this situation. They get more stability, they may feel like the divorce hasn’t changed their life as much and they get the security of really feeling like they know where they should feel “at home.” They are still close to their school, their friends and their neighborhood. They also don’t have to spend as much time in the car, being driven from one home to the other. What are the drawbacks? There are some potential downsides, however. Birdnesting can be quite expensive since parents have to pay for the home where the children live, along with their own homes. This setup also requires the parents to work together closely regarding things like paying the mortgage, paying utilities, doing maintenance and upkeep on the home, sharing weekly chores and much more. Birdnesting is only one example of a potential child custody arrangement. Parents who are going through a divorce should carefully consider all the options they have., Author, What is "Birdnesting" After a Divorce?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • Things get tricky when business owners are married, and they may have even been a married couple before they started the business. But they’ve now decided that they’re going to get divorced. As the marriage ends, they may start to wonder if that’s also the end of the family business. It can be. Many people sell their businesses when they get divorced because dividing assets is easier. If a third party purchases the business outright, the co-owners can divide the money that they earn as they get divorced. It keeps things simple. But it is certainly possible for business owners to continue to work together after the divorce. They don’t have to sell the company and they don’t have to be married to continue their business partnership. What steps should they take? For those who consider this, one of the most important things to do is to create a partnership agreement. This can define the new relationship. It can spell out how much of the business each person owns, how much they should earn, their duties and responsibilities, and much more. Why don’t more people do this? This solution is relatively uncommon just because it can be difficult for former romantic partners to see each other as often as business partners need to. One person may decide that they would rather just move on and have a clean break. This sometimes results in one business owner selling their share to the other, who wants to stay with the company. For any of these three options, though, it’s most important for all involved to understand exactly what legal steps they’ll need to take., Author, Can business owners keep working together after a divorce?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • Marriage often involves talking about difficult subjects. Couples may discuss whether they want children, if they will finance for a new home or if they would move for better jobs. These kinds of decisions often have financial implications. If a couple comes to an impasse about how joint assets are used, it could lead to a divorce. There are many other reasons why a marriage would end because of financial issues. Here’s what you should know: 3 financial situations that lead to divorce It’s often not possible to know if a marriage would end because of financial difficulties. Here are a few causes of divorce: Financial stability: Some people marry for financial stability. This can make people feel like their marriage is less authentic or that they were tricked into marriage. Unemployment: A household may struggle if one spouse isn’t working. The financial difficulties here could cause large amounts of debt. It could lead to many issues if the unemployed spouse isn’t seeking any work. Inheritance or lottery: People who inherit or win a large amount of money may find their spouses want a part of it. There may be difficulties about how the money is spent and who has a right to spend it. Every divorce is unique, but people who are aware of why money might lead to a divorce may be better equipped for the future. How to protect yourself from a messy divorce There are measures that people can take to protect themselves from difficult divorces. People can make prenuptial agreements before marriage or postnuptial agreements during marriage that can establish how assets are handled if there’s a divorce.  It may help to reach out for legal help if you’re looking for proactive ways to protect your assets from a divorce. , Author, Do People Get Divorced Because of Financial Issues?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • The average person will confirm that divorce is an expensive process, if asked. Not only do divorcing couples need to split up their resources, but they also have to pay for legal representation and time in the California family courts. According to recent research on the average cost of divorce proceedings, couples usually pay around $17,500 for a divorce. However, the average cost of divorce is often significantly different than what people actually end up paying for divorce. The following factors tend to have an influence on the total cost for a couple’s divorce, although the unique circumstances of each couple’s situation necessarily vary. Whether or not spouses have children Minor children are often the biggest complicating factor for a divorce. Parents will have to resolve not just how they divide parenting time and decision-making authority but also financial responsibility for the children. It can take far longer to litigate or negotiate a divorce settlement when the people preparing for dissolution share responsibility for minor children. Which concerns (if any) require litigation The number of outstanding disputes that people have when they go to family court directly influences how much time their divorce requires and therefore how much it costs. The more issues a judge has to hear about and rule on, the higher the total cost of the divorce. Those who litigate multiple different matters in their divorces can generally anticipate having a much higher total cost for the process than those who are able to settle matters through mutual agreement before going to court. The amount of outside support each spouse needs Both spouses will need to have their own attorneys representing them. Couples may also work with another outside legal professional who serves as a mediator to facilitate negotiations between the spouses. Beyond that, high-conflict divorces often require the support of numerous other professionals. People may need to bring in a forensic accountant if they want to prove that their spouse hid assets. They may need to hire a real estate professional to appraise their home or other experts to place a fair market value on marital resources like art, vintage vehicles and collectibles. The more secondary services people require to prepare for divorce, the higher the final price tag for the process will be. Counter-intuitively, many couples sign that bringing in a mediator is one of the ways that they can keep costs a bit lower, as successful mediation can lead to a settlement and fewer court costs. Seeking legal guidance to better understand what issues influence the total cost of a California divorce may help people plan the most effective approach to the process given their unique situation., Author, 3 Factors that Influence the Cost of a California Divorce, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • If you are going through a divorce, you may agree that it is one of the most stressful experiences anyone can endure. Divorce stress is quite common and understandable, but that doesn’t make it any less unpleasant.Chronic stress persists over a lengthy period, usually until you resolve its cause. Unfortunately, it may increase the risk of making poor decisions, which can be disastrous when divorcing. How does chronic stress affect decision-making? A primary reason for stress is to prepare the brain and body to manage situations you may perceive as threatening. When the stress persists, it floods your body with hormones like adrenaline and cortisol.  An overload of stress hormones may cloud your mind and impact critical decisions. Examples of possible effects: It may limit your ability to make new decisions in changing circumstances. It could interfere with accurately weighing the risks and rewards associated with your decisions. It may cause you to question yourself or hesitate even when making relatively simple choices. It might lead to physical and mental exhaustion, which could further impact your decision-making. Many who suffer from chronic stress find it hard to think about the future objectively. That could mean you end up with an unfair share of marital property or limited access to your children. What can you do about it? Chronic stress is as bad for your divorce as it is for your health. You may benefit from counseling or therapy or when battling stress. Finding a way to manage stress can help you feel better psychologically and physically. Perhaps more importantly, it can improve your mental focus, empowering you to work better with your legal representative to make wise choices in your divorce.      , Author, Chronic Stress can Lead to Poor Divorce Decisions, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • If you’re reading this, you understand that unwed parents can have the same relationship issues as married parents. Sometimes, these problems can cause a rift deep enough to permanently divide couples, regardless of whether they are married. You might assume the breakup of unmarried couples is easier than a marital split. It may seem that way, but you must take special care to protect your rights and those of your children. 2 steps for dads Dads, if you haven’t already, immediately establish that you are the father. In California, both parents can sign a document acknowledging paternity. If this isn’t possible, you can take a genetic or DNA test proving you fathered the children. You should also remain engaged with your kids and participate in their lives. Taking this step demonstrates your love and sense of responsibility to the family court and benefits you all during a challenging life event. 2 steps for moms Mothers, urge your co-parent to establish their paternity in the eyes of the law. By taking this step, you may have a smoother experience in securing the financial support your kids will continue to need after your breakup. Moms should also consider encouraging their children’s father to spend plenty of time with the kids. They need both parents now more than ever, and it will show the court that you value the relationship between your children and their dad. 1 unified step for parents Once you realize your relationship problems are irreparable, start working on a parenting time plan to preserve your child access rights. The earlier you address parenting time, the better your odds of avoiding conflicts that cause stress for parents and kids alike. Although you need not undergo official divorce proceedings as an unmarried couple, legal guidance is still wise. It can protect the rights of everyone impacted by your breakup., Author, Protective Steps Unmarried Parents Should Consider in a Breakup, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • Even the most amicable divorce can be emotionally draining and tiresome to navigate. But if your spouse is adamant and anything but willing to sign divorce papers, you might be wondering what to do. If you have decided to end your marriage, you are probably ready to follow through to the end so you can pick up the pieces and move on with your life. But what happens if your spouse is unwilling to sign the divorce papers? Will the divorce still proceed? But why won’t they sign? First and foremost, it helps to try to figure out why your spouse would not sign the divorce papers. Their action could be inspired by a number of factors such as the hope that you can still work out your differences. In this case, sitting down to explain to them that you are no longer interested in the marriage might persuade them to sign. Will the divorce go ahead if your spouse refuses to sign divorce papers? A quick answer is yes. Your divorce can, and will, go ahead even if your spouse refuses to sign the divorce papers. However, do keep in mind that this will lead to a contested rather than an uncontested divorce, and this can be quite costly on multiple fronts. Worse still, things can become more complicated if children and property division are in the picture. Your options if your spouse refuses to respond to the petition If your spouse refuses to sign the divorce papers, they will be deemed to have “defaulted.” You may have to file an affidavit to the court as proof that you served them divorce papers and that they refused to sign them. With this, the court will decide default orders without necessarily involving your spouse.      , Author, My spouse won’t sign divorce papers. What do I do?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • California’s community property law is straightforward. All marital assets are evenly divided, while separate assets remain with the spouse who had them going into the marriage. However, when it comes to high-asset divorces, it’s not unusual for one spouse to attempt to keep more of the marital assets for themselves. What if you suspect your ex-spouse is hiding assets? How can you find out? Ways to hide money For the unethical spouse, there is no shortage of strategies they can employ to hide marital assets. Some of the more common methods include the following: Giving money to family and friends as a gift or helping them to “pay off a loan” with the intent of getting the money back after the divorce is finalized Creating shell companies and moving assets to an offshore account Purchasing luxury items Investing in cryptocurrency Undervaluing assets Deferring raises or bonuses Looking for hidden marital assets may seem like a lost cause. Fortunately, a forensic accountant can help. They use multiple methods to uncover inconsistencies. A forensic accountant will conduct a thorough analysis of financial records, such as bank statements and investments, to look for unusual transactions or patterns. They will do a lifestyle analysis to see if expenditures exceed income. Tax returns also provide information such as deductions or a considerable difference in what was reported in previous years. Hiding assets in a divorce is unethical as well as illegal in California. The guilty spouse may forfeit 100% of the asset’s value if caught. In addition, they will be responsible for the other spouse’s attorney fees and associated court costs. If you are considering a divorce, it’s crucial that you have someone advocating on your behalf. They can help ensure that you receive everything you are entitled to., Author, Uncovering Hidden Assets in Divorce, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • There are countless reasons why someone with shared custody in the San Diego area might want to relocate. Cost of living is certainly a factor. What may have been comfortable for the family with two wage earners in the household may now be unreasonable for someone to manage on their own, even with child support payments. Other times, it may be a lack of friends and family in the area or a job opportunity elsewhere that drives someone’s desire to relocate. However, those bound by a custody order in California cannot simply pack up their children and leave the city, county or state. Relocation requests generally require court approval and/or the cooperation of the other parent. How the move-away process works If one parent wants to relocate and take the children with them, they will generally need to provide advance notice both to the other parent and to the family courts. Sometimes, both parents will recognize that the social or financial circumstances make the move necessary. If the parents can cooperate, then the relocation request will be an uncontested one, which means that the courts will basically review the situation and make some changes to the existing custody arrangements. In a situation where the parents do not agree about the necessity of the move, then the matter may require a hearing in front of a family law judge. During that hearing, the judge will look at the current parenting plan, the distance of the move and the justification for the relocation. Everything from social support to housing and schools may influence what a judge decides is ultimately in the best interests of the children. Although they do typically seek to preserve the rights of both parents, they may grant a move-away request and make significant revisions to the custody order if that will be the best outcome for the children in the family. Whether a parent intends to request a relocation for themselves or contest a relocation request made by their co-parent, they will usually need evidence showing that their preferred outcome would be in the best interests of the children. If the matter goes to court, there’s never any guarantee about how a judge will rule. Understanding what happens during relocation or move-away requests in California custody cases may help parents to advocate for their relationship with their children more effectively.  , Author, When can a Parent with Shared Custody Move Away with their Child?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • Divorce is an emotionally charged process that usually gives rise to a lot of heightened conflicts and tensions between the two people involved. To navigate this challenging journey with as much grace as possible, it’s time to establish clear communication boundaries with your spouse. When it’s done well, communication boundaries can help keep your divorce moving along at a steady pace. If it’s done badly, you can quickly see what might have been a fairly civil process turn into a nightmare. Here’s how to start. Limit your communication channels Once the divorce is in motion, it’s best to keep a record of all your communications with your spouse. That can prevent potentially confrontational situations and confusion about what was said or agreed upon. If the discussion involves your divorce, the division of  property, custody of the children, support issues or anything similar, stick to emails or text messages. That not only allows you to create a record of what was said, but it also helps you avoid impromptu and ill-considered responses that come from a place of frustration or anger. Define the topics that are open for discussion This is another area where boundary setting is critical. Does your spouse want to discuss the holiday schedule for the kids? Fine. Do they want to talk about how to divide the investments? That’s also acceptable. Let them know that you don’t want to rehash old fights or continue to discuss what went wrong in the marriage. Once you’ve reached the point where the divorce has started, delving into the past can only dredge up more negative emotions and hinder your progress. Stick to business (and business-like language) Remember that everything you write can end up in court, so stick to a respectful, business-like tone in your messages. Steer clear of inflammatory statements and emotional language. Instead, treat every conversation like it’s just a business deal with details that need to be worked out. This can help you avoid conflicts and foster a more constructive communication process, which can be particularly helpful if you and your spouse need to co-parent together. Even a relatively benign divorce proceeding can go off the rails when a couple fails to communicate, and couples who already have trouble communicating can end up in a real battle. Whatever the issues, legal guidance can help you keep your divorce on track.      , Author, Setting Communication Boundaries during your Divorce: 3 Tips, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • Entire songs have been written about the idea that parents sometimes decide to stay together for the kids. This is a decision that they make when they no longer want to be married, but they already have children and they think that the divorce would have a detrimental impact on the children’s lives. They decide to stay married, even though they don’t want to, out of respect for the children. Parents sometimes think that this is a noble decision, but is it? Is it actually better to stay together for the kids? High conflict marriage The real question to ask here is simply what the level of conflict is like in the marriage. If the conflict level is low, then parents who decide to stay together do give their children a bit more stability. Divorce can be hard for children, who sometimes struggle emotionally and academically. These are the ramifications parents are trying to avoid. However, many parents who are considering divorce are actively in high-conflict marriages. The children are experiencing this conflict and stress on a daily basis. This can be so negative for their development and growth that it would actually be better for them if their parents got divorced. In fact, some parents find that it is easier to be good parents when they are co-parents who can focus on the kids, rather than when they are a married couple and they are constantly at odds with one another. Children and divorce often go together and can lead to complicated situations. It’s important for those involved to understand exactly what legal options they have and what steps to take., Author, Is It Better to Stay Together For The Kids?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • Tax considerations are important as you and your spouse divide property during divorce. If you have significant and/or complex assets, it’s wise to have your tax and financial professionals on your divorce team to advise you and your legal counsel as you determine what you want to seek. One concern that many people have is whether they’ll need to pay capital gains tax on property they get in the divorce. For example, if your spouse signs over the title to your beach house up the coast, do you have to pay capital gains tax based on the difference between its purchase price and what it’s worth now? You might have the same question about stocks that have increased exponentially in value if they’re offered to you in exchange for something else. The good news is that divorcing couples typically don’t have to report capital gains on assets transferred “incident to the divorce.” The IRS recognizes that considerable assets change hands every year that fit this description, and it doesn’t require people to report capital gains (or losses) on their tax returns.   Know the timeline Most transfers are made soon after the divorce is finalized (if not before). That’s why assets transferred within 12 months after the divorce decree is signed don’t require any documentation to prove that they were made as part of the divorce agreement. The law recognizes that divisions and transfers of complex assets like businesses and land can take longer to finalize. That’s why transfers made after 12 months but prior to six years following the divorce decree are also considered “incident to the divorce” as long as they’re included in the original divorce settlement or any modification approved by the court. It’s rare that an asset transferred more than six years following a divorce would be considered part of it. However, if you have something that fits that category, you’ll likely need thorough documentary evidence if you want to avoid capital gains tax. As noted, it’s always wise to have sound legal and tax guidance along with experienced legal guidance as you proceed through your divorce. Just like your legal professional, your tax and financial advisors should be your own – not those you’ve shared with your spouse. You want to ensure that everyone on your team is looking out for your best interests., Author, Capital gains tax and property division in divorce, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • There are many financial issues that can lead to divorce. Some couples can’t make ends meet. Other couples have different goals, such as when one is a spender and the other is a saver. These types of financial issues can cause a marriage to come to an end. One potential issue that is sometimes reported is secret spending. This is also known as financial infidelity. It generally just means that one spouse is spending money while intentionally concealing that spending from the other. Don’t people do this all the time? To some degree, yes, most married couples will spend money without clearing it with the other person. Your spouse is probably not going to text you to tell you that they are putting gas in the car or buying groceries. Little expenditures like this just happen and are an expected part of life. But the issue is when that spending is excessive and begins to cause financial problems for the couple. Maybe someone has a secret gambling addiction, and they funneled thousands of dollars out of their savings into this addiction every month. Their spouse has no idea and believes that they are saving for the future, but they actually have nothing in reserve. When that type of secret spending is discovered, it can often lead to divorce because it creates a financial hardship, as noted above, and because it erodes the trust between the two individuals. Are you getting divorced? Are you and your spouse going to split up this year, perhaps because of financial issues? It could get complicated, so be sure you know what legal steps to take., Author, Secret Spending could Lead to Divorce, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • Divorce can be an emotionally overwhelming experience for everyone involved, especially children. As parents, you are responsible for handling this delicate situation with care and compassion. One crucial aspect is informing your kids about the impending divorce. Breaking the news about your divorce to your children may not be easy, but it is an essential step in helping them navigate this challenging period. Here are some compelling reasons to inform your kids about your divorce. Honesty is the best policy Informing your children about the impending divorce is crucial in maintaining trust and stability in their lives. By openly discussing the situation, you help provide a sense of security, allowing them to process their emotions in real-time. When children feel included and informed, they are more likely to adapt to the changes more resiliently. It’s also important to acknowledge that children are perceptive and can sense when something is amiss within the family. Without proper communication, they may create their own narratives, leading to unnecessary anxiety and confusion. By discussing the divorce openly, you can alleviate their concerns and address any misconceptions they may have. This open dialogue allows them to express their feelings, ask questions and gain clarity about the situation. You should prioritize their emotional well-beingDivorce can trigger a range of emotions in children, including sadness, anger, confusion and even guilt. Therefore, it is crucial to acknowledge and validate their feelings throughout the process. By informing them about the divorce, you give them a chance to process their emotions healthily. Moreover, when children are informed about the divorce, they need reassurance that they will continue to be loved and supported by both parents. By openly discussing the changes that will occur, you can offer them the comfort of knowing that your love and care for them will remain unchanged. Reassurance plays a vital role in helping children feel secure and confident during this challenging time. Informing your kids about your decision to divorce is crucial in helping them navigate this challenging time. By embracing transparency, you can minimize the negative impact of divorce on your children.  , Author, Why you should inform your kids that you’re divorcing, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • The Digital Age has inspired all kinds of changes – and that includes how parents often communicate with their children. If you’re currently living at a distance from your child due to a separation or divorce from your co-parent, there’s no reason not to make use of digital devices to keep in touch. “Virtual” visitation has become a new normal for a lot of co-parents, but you shouldn’t try to navigate the situation without some ground rules. Here are things that need to be discussed with your co-parent in advance. How do you intend to schedule your visits? You have to take into account any scheduling conflicts that may affect your ability to have regular virtual visits with your child. Look at everybody’s work or school schedules and time zone differences so that you can create a schedule for your visits. Your child’s age may also come into play. For example, a teen may be much more available in the late evening than a toddler. Aim for some kind of agreement with your co-parent and child about how long and how often each scheduled visit will be. You should also discuss the frequency and timing of “unscheduled” check-ins, calls or other forms of communication, like email and text messages. How much does your co-parent need to be involved? You probably would prefer “private time” with your child, whenever possible. If your child is older or just adept at handling digital devices, there’s little reason for your co-parent to be involved in your virtual visits. If your child is very young, however, you may need your co-parent to facilitate the visits, but you should have some mutual understanding of what happens after each visit starts. That may mean your co-parent withdraws to another room for the duration or simply stays quiet in the background. Remember, the focus should always be on what is in the best interest of the child and fostering a healthy and meaningful relationship between the child and both parents, even in a virtual setting. A well-written parenting plan that addresses these issues and more can help., Author, 2 Virtual Visitation Issues that should be discussed, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • When the marriage is over and the couple decides to divorce, the court may direct one party to pay spousal support to the other. The purpose of this payment is to cushion the receiving party from the financial impact of the divorce.  However, spousal support is not necessarily cast in stone. There are instances when either party may petition for its modification or termination. But when exactly can this happen? Terminating spousal support obligation Before establishing whether you should stop spousal support payments or not, it is important to start by understanding that there are two types of spousal support in California – short-term or temporary and long-term spousal support.  Short-term spousal support is awarded to spouses who, at the time of the divorce, were unemployed. This type of child support is meant to provide the receiving party with the skills or training needed to ensure that they can find work and support themselves. Thus, if you can prove that the purpose of this type of spousal support has been achieved, and that your ex’s circumstances have changed, then you may petition for the modification or termination of the order. Long-term spousal support too can also be subjected to modification or termination under a certain set of circumstances. Here are some of them: When you can prove that your ex has remarried or moved in with a romantic partner When the receiving party has received a large inheritance or other financial windfalls like winning the lottery, thus, they no longer need support Death of either party When the receiving party demonstrates an unwillingness to obtain the skills or the training they require to find work When both parties consent to terminate the payments These are just some of the circumstances that may justify a modification to an existing spousal support order. Learning more about California divorce and spousal support laws can help you safeguard your rights and interests while litigating spousal support. , Author, When can you stop paying spousal support in California?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • Those who work hard to build wealth and success are often naturally protective of their assets. After all, it can be tough to shake the worry that someone will try to take advantage of your prosperity. For most, love and marriage are supposed to last forever, but as you know, some relationships just cannot survive. If you are planning to marry, do not rule out a prenuptial agreement merely because you trust your future spouse. Instead, introduce them to the potential advantages a marital agreement can offer you both. Improves financial communications Money matters are so hard to talk about, even between intimate partners. Starting a conversation about premarital agreements may open the door to a dialog addressing the economic concerns everyone has but rarely discusses. It can inspire you both to get your worries out in the open and then ensure the prenup contains provisions to address them. That can set the ground for open and honest financial conversations throughout the marriage. Relieves divorce anxiety Those with a higher net worth find that a prenuptial agreement relieved many concerns, including anxiety about the possibility that their marriage will end. Contrary to common belief, the less wealthy party usually feels more secure about a possible divorce after signing a prenup. Since you may address property division in California prenuptial agreements, your future spouse might feel better knowing arrangements are in place. A wise next step for those still unsure about getting a premarital agreement is to learn more about them. When you understand what it can and cannot do, you will see it more as a marriage preservation tool than a divorce weapon., Author, What are the real benefits of premarital agreements?, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • Divorces can throw up a lot of big numbers. Everything from asset division to child support to spousal support involves figures. When you ask for a particular amount of something, you need to be able to justify why you are asking for that specific amount. You cannot be seen to pluck numbers out of thin air. You certainly do not need to be a math genius to do this, but as your high school teacher probably told you, you need to be able to show your working out. Here are some things to consider: The value of your marital assets Make a list and include everything you can think of from the savings account to the car to the house to the antique dresser you bought together at an old garage sale. Sometimes things can be worth far more than you think. Regardless of whether a particular item holds much value, you need to know the overall total of assets. Only once you add everything up can you decide on a number to seek when dividing assets. Your expenses Start by looking at your current monthly spending. If you have never paid much attention to this, you may find you spend far more than you thought. With this figure you can begin to look at what you will need in the future should you wish to seek spousal or child support. Your personal wealth and incomes You know your spouse earns well, but do you know the exact figure once you add up their monthly wage, bonuses and commissions? You need to know theirs and yours. Remember they might not be totally honest, so if you have doubts, you can seek help to investigate further and see whether they are attempting to hide assets or income from you. You will also need help to understand what are reasonable financial targets to set when negotiating the various divorce elements., Author, The Importance of Good Math when Divorcing, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • Traditionally, divorce involved a couple facing off in court, and a judge ruled how everything would go. It is perhaps why many people associate divorce with high conflict and legal battles pitting spouses against each other. However, it does not have to be that way. The end of your marriage is already emotionally draining, and having an easy divorce process could help reduce the burden. Mediation can be just what you need. The benefits of divorce mediation The main advantage of divorce mediation is reducing conflict. You do not have to tear into each other since it’s a collaborative process. This can be especially helpful if children are involved, as it can help reduce the adverse effects of a contentious divorce on them. Divorce mediation also gives you more control over your affairs. It puts you in the driving seat, and you can make decisions that work best for everyone. In comparison, you never know what a judge will order when you go the traditional route. Lastly, divorce mediation offers more privacy. You do not have to air your private life in public. It could attract unwanted attention. Divorce mediation can also help avoid the need for lengthy and costly court battles. Is divorce mediation right for you? It is worth noting that divorce mediation does not work for everyone. For instance, if one spouse is not willing to negotiate a settlement or if you are sure you will not get a fair deal, mediation may not be the best avenue. That said, it is worth exploring this less adversarial approach to your divorce. Equally important is learning more about how things work and your legal rights to help protect your interests., Author, Divorce Mediation Can Save you a Lot of trouble, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • When parents in California have to navigate the process of creating a child custody order because they are splitting up, the courts will generally require that they draft a parenting plan as well. As long as both parents intend to remain active in their children’s lives, a parenting plan will likely serve as a mandatory element of a family’s broader custody arrangement. Like custody division concerns, parenting plan terms must be crafted in the best interests of the minor child that two co-parents share. However, this does not mean that each parent’s world must suddenly revolve around their child. Parents typically need to work in order to provide for their kids, and they have their own needs as well. Simply because a parenting plan needs to be focused on a child’s well-being, that doesn’t mean that the child’s parents have to force themselves into a truly unmanageable situation. A parenting plan can be crafted in ways that work for everyone. Reasonable expectations (and flexibility, when appropriate) If you and your co-parent are always fighting, navigating tension and failing to meet the unworkable terms of your parenting plan, that will not serve your child’s best interests. As a result, you’ll want to consider crafting your parenting plan in ways that are manageable for you and your co-parent. By carefully considering whether the expectations you’re setting for each other are reasonable, you can potentially avoid a lot of preventable tension and conflict. If you build some flexibility into terms – when possible and appropriate – you can also safeguard against tension incurred when the unexpected rears its inevitable head. If you’re unsure of how to craft parenting plan terms that set workable expectations and are appropriately flexible, that’s okay. You can seek legal guidance at any time., Author, Crafting a Parenting Plan That Works for everyone, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • Losing your co-parent can be one of life’s most challenging stumbling blocks. Suddenly, you are on deck. Your primary custodial co-parent died. You immediately assumed sole physical and legal custody of your children. But what now, legally speaking? Your first priority should be to review the latest final judicial custody determination in your divorce or parentage case. Specifically, you will need to assess whether you were paying child support to the now-deceased co-parent. This should be fairly easy to identify, right? You should have personal experience paying child support to the co-parent or accruing arrears for delinquent payments due.   Next, if you identify you are on the hook for support to the now deceased co-parent, then you must work quickly to update the Court about the changed circumstances in your case. California Courts do not automatically terminate Child Support upon the primary custodial parent’s death. You will have to file a Request for Order to modify the latest final judicial custody determination to update the Court that the primary custodial parent has died and that you assumed sole physical and legal custody of your children. Prager Jones, APC, is experienced in navigating tragic circumstances, including incidents whenco-parents die unexpectedly. Our team of legal professionals will mindfully and delicately handle your case. Prager Jones, APC, is willing and able to help you focus on the things that truly matter in challenging times., Author, Child Support After Death of a Co-Parent, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • Parents who are going through a divorce have some unique challenges to handle that aren’t present for people who don’t share children. Throughout the divorce, they have to ensure the children are adjusting well to the changes. It’s not always easy co-parenting with an ex. Remembering these five tips may be beneficial. 1. Make decisions based on the children All decisions you make while co-parenting should be based on what the children need. How those decisions impact you or your ex can’t be considered. 2. Communicate calmly and effectively All communication should be directly between you and your ex. Always speak calmly to each other, and never involve the children in passing messages. 3. Agree on mutual rules It’s a good idea to have major rules the same between both homes, if possible. This may include the rules for going out with friends or ones about performance in school. Consistency enables children to thrive despite the major changes they’re dealing with. 4. Remain dependable Children need to know their parents will be dependable. This means that you always pick them up or drop them off when expected and that you do what you say you will do. Having at least one dependable parent can give them stability, which is critical for children. 5. Encourage support Having a support system for yourself and your children is important. This can include your friends and family members. Your children may also be able to count on support from trusted teachers, coaches and other adults in their life. The parenting plan you set has all the terms for how the co-parenting relationship will work. Be sure you set it in a mutually agreeable manner and that you refer to it when you have questions. , Author, 5 tips for Co-Parenting After Divorce, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023
  • Partners in life sometimes become partners in business. But, sometimes, diverging paths in one or both of these areas may lead to spouses to permanently part ways. However, the successful business that the two of you created only brings further complications to the..., Author, 3 Options to Consider when Married Business Partners Divorce, Prager Jones, Legal, Family Law, Attorney, 2023

Other Outstanding Achievements

  • Designed, planned, and project managed the construction of the largest family law office space in East County San Diego. Featuring 15-offices, multiple-conference rooms, and state of the art information technology. , 2025
  • Perfect 10 Rating on Justia.com, 2025
  • Assisted as a legal consultant for the development of an application geared toward combating the suicide epidemic facing military veterans., 2024
  • Selected as a Judge for the National Sports Law Negotiation Competition 2018 - Present. Law schools from around the country form teams to compete at the annual competition. I have been selected and participated to serve as a Judge at this prestigious national competition since 2018., 2022
  • Recognized by the Thomas Jefferson School of Law for discovering and locating over $2,500,000.00 in funds that had been concealed from one of my clients by fraud and perjury., 2019
  • I was awarded the cover and a featured article in Valley Lawyer Magazine, the Publication of the San Fernando Valley Bar Association. I won first place in the bar's annual art contest for my photography. , 2016

Honors

  • I received an award that commemorates that my Tiktok account surpassed 1,000,000 views. , Tiktok Creator Award, Tiktok, 2025
  • Since 2016 I have been recognized by Yelp.com for having an exceptionally high review rating. I have been awarded "Best of Yelp" for the past 10-years., Best of Yelp, Yelp.com, 2025
  • In 2024, I was selected by Best Lawyers in the catagory of Divorce and Family Law. , Best Lawyers of 2024, Best Lawyers, 2024
  • In 2024, I was selected as a top 500 Family Law lawyer in the United States., 500 Leading Family Lawyers, Lawdragon, 2024
  • In August of 2023, I was selected for Law Firm of the Month and featured on the cover of Attorney Journals magazine for both San Diego and Orange County. , Law Firm of the Month, Attorney Jounals Magazine, 2023
  • Selected as Best Divorce Lawyer in San Diego by Expertise.com , Best Divorce Lawyer, Expertise.com, 2022
  • I was awarded the Client's Choice Award by Avvo. , Client's Choice Award, Avvo, 2022
  • I was awarded the 10-year Community Service Award by Martindale-Hubbell, 10-year Community Service Award, Martindale-Hubbell, 2022
  • Selected as Best Child Support Lawyer in San Diego by Expertise.com , Best Child Support Lawyer, Expertise.com , 2022
  • Recognized for 5-years of community service. , Community Service Award, Martindale-Hubbell, 2017
  • Academic Achievement Award. , Jefferson Medal, Thomas Jefferson School of Law, 2010
  • Award for being ranked #1 in my law school class. , American Jurisprudence, Thomas Jefferson School of Law, 2010
  • Academic Award for Computer Assisted Learning. , CALI Excellence Award, Thomas Jefferson School of Law, 2010
  • Academic Achievement Award. , Witkin Award, Thomas Jefferson School of Law, 2010

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