Kirk C. Stange

Top rated Family Law attorney in Clayton, Missouri

Stange Law Firm, PC
Kirk C. Stange
Stange Law Firm, PC

Practice areas: Family Law, Alternative Dispute Resolution, Estate Planning & Probate; view more

Licensed in Missouri since: 2000

Education: University of Missouri School of Law (Columbia)

Selected to Super Lawyers: 2015 - 2025 Selected to Rising Stars: 2013 - 2014
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Stange Law Firm, PC

120 S. Central Avenue
Suite 450
Clayton, MO 63105 Visit website
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Kirk Stange is the founding partner and president of Stange Law Firm, PC. He focuses his legal practice exclusively on family law and represents clients in complex and emotionally sensitive matters involving divorce, child custody and parenting time, child support, spousal maintenance, paternity, and related domestic relations issues. Kirk is known for providing clear guidance, candid advice, and steady advocacy throughout every stage of a case. He is trained as a mediator, collaborative attorney, and guardian ad litem, allowing him to approach family law matters with a broad and balanced perspective.

Since founding Stange Law Firm, PC in 2007, Kirk has played a central role in growing the firm into a large, multi-state family law practice that continues to expand. Kirk remains actively involved in firm leadership and professional development while maintaining a strong commitment to family law advocacy at the firm.

Kirk is deeply involved in legal education. He is a frequent continuing legal education speaker for organizations such as The Missouri Bar, myLawCLE, and the National Business Institute, and he has presented to attorneys and judges across the country on a wide range of family law topics. In 2014, he presented at the Eighth Circuit Judicial Conference in Omaha, Nebraska, on the use of social media evidence for lawyers and judges. In recognition of his contributions to attorney education, The Missouri Bar honored him in 2017 for his substantial involvement in continuing legal education programs, including repeated presentations for MoBarCLE’s Annual Law Update and other advanced family law seminars. He has also served as a mentor through The Missouri Bar Mentoring Program.

In addition to his speaking engagements, Kirk is active in academic and professional leadership. He is a member of the Law Society at the University of Missouri–Columbia School of Law and serves as an adjunct professor at Emory University School of Law, where he has taught as a trial instructor in the Kessler-Eidson Program for Trial Techniques. He also serves as President of the Missouri Collaborative Institute, a professional organization dedicated to promoting collaborative practice as an alternative dispute resolution option in divorce and family law matters.

Kirk earned his Bachelor of Arts in History from Fontbonne University and his Juris Doctor from the University of Missouri–Columbia School of Law. While in law school, he was selected as one of ten graduates inducted into the Order of the Barristers in recognition of courtroom advocacy skills. On the July 2000 Missouri Bar Examination, he scored in the top ten percent of all examinees. He later completed advanced training through the ABA Family Law Trial Advocacy Institute. Kirk is licensed to practice law in Missouri, Illinois, Kansas, and the United States District Court for the Eastern District of Missouri.

Kirk’s work has been widely recognized within the legal profession. He has been selected to Missouri and Kansas Super Lawyers for Family Law each year since 2015, an honor reserved for no more than five percent of attorneys in each state. He was previously named a Super Lawyers Rising Star in 2013 and 2014. Kirk has also been included on Missouri Lawyers Weekly’s POWER List for Family Law since 2020, was selected to the Missouri Lawyers Weekly Top 100 Power List in 2025, and received the Missouri Lawyers Weekly Law Firm Leader Award in 2026.

Kirk is also a published legal author. His work includes a chapter in a 2012 Thomson Reuters (Aspatore Publishing) book addressing military family law, the full-length 2014 Thomson Reuters book Prenuptial Agreements Line by Line, and a 2015 Aspatore chapter focused on Illinois family law and alternative dispute resolution. He has also co-authored multiple chapters in Missouri Family Law published by The Missouri Bar, including updates addressing protection orders and child abuse issues in domestic cases.

In 2025, Kirk was recognized as the #2 author on family law in JD Supra’s Readers’ Choice Awards, an honor reserved for a select group of contributors nationwide. He has received this recognition since 2023 and is also a contributor to Entrepreneur Magazine.

Note: The choice of a lawyer is an important decision and should not be based solely upon advertisements. Kirk Stange is responsible for the content. Principal place of business 120 South Central Ave, Suite 450, Clayton, MO 63105.  Past results afford no guaranty of future results and every case is different and must be judged on its own merits. Neither the Supreme Court of Missouri/Illinois nor The Missouri/Illinois Bar reviews or approves certifying organizations or specialist designations. Further, Mr. Stange only takes a rare number of cases. When Mr. Stange takes new cases, please note that he only takes them in and around the St. Louis, Missouri Area.  However, other lawyers at Stange Law Firm, PC are taking new cases in other locations. 

Practice areas

Family Law, Alternative Dispute Resolution, Estate Planning & Probate

Focus areas

Adoption, Alimony & Spousal Support, Child Support, Custody & Visitation, Dissolution, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Father's Rights, Juvenile Law, Marital Property, Mediation, Mediation & Collaborative Law, Name Change, Paternity, Prenuptial Agreements, Same Sex Family Law

  • 80% Family Law
  • 10% Alternative Dispute Resolution
  • 10% Estate Planning & Probate

First Admitted: 2000, Missouri

Professional Webpage: https://www.stangelawfirm.com/Our-Professionals/Kirk-C-Stang...

Bar / Professional Activity

  • Trained Mediator, 2013 - Present, 2025
  • Missouri Law License, 2000 - Present, 2025
  • Illinois Law License, 2011 - Present, 2025
  • Kansas Law License, 2006 to present, 2025
  • Member, International Association of Collaborative Professionals, 2014 - Present., 2025
  • Member, Family Law Section, American Bar Association, 2025
  • U.S. District Court Eastern District of Missouri, 2000 - Present., 2025
  • Trained Guardian ad Litem, Present, 2025
  • Family Law Section, Missouri Bar, 2025
  • President, Missouri Collaborative Institute, 2018 to Present, 2025
  • Adjunct Professor, Emory University School of Law, 2016 - Present, 2021
  • National Leadership Council Ambassador, Maryville University, 2017 - 2020, 2020
  • Member - CEU/CLE Subcommittee for IACP Forum's Local Host Committee, 2019, 2019
  • Former President, Wildwood Chapter of Business Network International, 2004, 2004

Verdicts / Settlements (Case Results)

  • Steinberg v. Steinberg, 430 S.W.3d 321 (Mo. App. 2014): Obtained reverse and remand on child support order., 2014
  • State ex. rel Richmond v. Essner, ED 100833 (Mo. App. 2014): Prevailed on Writ of Habeas Corpus in Court of Appeals., 2014
  • Atchley v. Atchley, 334 S.W.3d 709 (Mo. App. 2011): Reversal of maintenance and child support award in the Missouri Court of Appeals, Eastern District., 2011
  • Anselmo v. Guasto, 162 S.W.3d 63 (Mo. App. 2005), affirmed property dispute in Court of Appeals., 2005

Videos

  • Appeared on We Chat Divorce with Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan, discussing the importance of financial clarity in divorce preparation and sharing insights from his experience guiding clients through complex legal transitions., We Chat Divorce, Legal, Family Law, Divorce, 2025
  • Appeared on Men Rising From Divorce – A Rising Phoenix Podcast, discussing custody, false allegations, and the importance of mindset, and sharing insights from his experience guiding parents through challenging transitions., The Rising Phoenix Podcast, Legal, Fathers Rights, Family Law, Divorce, 2025
  • Kirk Stange appeared on Co-Parenting Beyond Conflict with Sol Kennedy, discussing how family law intersects with personal growth and resilience, and sharing insights from his experience helping individuals navigate difficult legal and emotional transitions., Co-Parenting Beyond Conflict, Legal, Family Law, Divorce, Custody, Parenting, 2025
  • Kirk Stange recently joined The Dating Diaries with Christal & Scorpio Moe to explore an important question: Should prenuptial agreements be mandatory? During the discussion, Christal & Scorpio Moe welcomed Mr. Stange (near the 38-minute mark) to share insights on normalizing prenuptial agreements and why couples may want to consider them before marriage., The Dating Diaries with Christal & Scorpio Moe, Legal, 2025
  • Podcast of the Missouri Bar where Kirk Stange was one of the guests. , Is it Legal to...Love and Marriage, Legal, 2019
  • Kirk Stange was interviewed regarding their participation in the Forest Park Balloon Race. , Kirk Sange on Fox 2 News Re: Forest Park Balloon Race, Legal, 2018
  • Kirk Stange on the Tomi Lahren Show. , Kirk Stange on Tomi Lahren Show, 2016
  • Interview of Kirk Stange by the Springfield Business Journal on the misperceptions about divorce. , Misperceptions about Divorce, 2018
  • Numerous family law videos on webpage., Stange Law Firm Videos, Family Law, 2016
  • Marketing video of Stange Law Firm, PC., Here to Help You Rebuild Your Life, Legal, 2016

Special Licenses / Certifications

  • Trained in Collaborative Law from the Collaborative Law Institute of Illinois - Two day interdsciplinary training, since 2014, 2025
  • Trained Mediator - 40 hours of Mediation Training, St. Louis University School of Law, since 2013., 2025
  • Graduate, American Bar Association Family Law Trial Advocacy Institute, 2006

Pro bono / Community Service

Educational Background

  • University of Missouri-Columbia School of Law, Finalist, Fall Moot Court Competition, Regional Moot Court Team, J.D., 2000
  • Fontbonne University, B.A. in History with Secondary/Middle School Certification in Social Studies, 1997

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Scholarly Lectures / Writings

Other Outstanding Achievements

Honors

  • Kirk Stange was mentioned in the University of Missouri-Columbia School of Law's Alumni Notes., Alumni Notes at the University of Missouri-Columbia School of Law, University of Missouri-Columbia School of Law, 2026
  • Kirk Stange was named to the POWER List Top 30 for Family Law. , The POWER List Top 30 for Family Law, Missouri Lawyers' Weekly, 2025
  • Recognized as one of five in 2026 to receive the Law Firm Leader Award. Missouri Lawyer's Weekly gives this award yearly to the chairpersons, managing partners, and executives who show vision, innovation, and leadership in guiding their firms and the legal field., Law Firm Leader Award, Missouri Lawyer's Weekly, 2026
  • Recognized by Missouri Lawyers' Weekly on the Top 100 Power List. Missouri Lawyer's Weekly says this about this award:" At the end of the year, our editorial team reviewed hundreds of Power profiles published in the previous 12 months to find the cream of the crop — the Top 100 attorneys in Missouri and bordering metro areas.", Top 100 Power List, Missouri Lawyers Weekly, 2025
  • In March 2025, it was announced that Kirk Stange was recognized as the #2 author on family law in JD Supra’s 2025 Readers’ Choice Awards., JD Supra's Readers Choice Award, JD Supra, 2025
  • Kirk has had a 10.0/10.0 Superb Rating by AVVO since 2013., 10.0/10.0 Superb Rating, AVVO, 2025
  • Kirk is Lead Counsel Rated for Divorce/Family Law by Thomson Reuters since 2014., Lead Counsel Rated (Divorce/Family Law), Thomson Reuters, 2025
  • Kirk Stange became a Lifetime Charter Member of Distinguished Justice Advocates in 2019., Lifetime Charter Member, Distinguished Justice Advocates, 2025
  • Kirk named to the Super Lawyers list for Family Law by Super Lawyers Magazine for Missouri and Kansas since 2015, Missouri and Kansas Super Lawyers for Family Law, Super Lawyers - Thomson Reuters, 2024
  • Kirk Stange was named to The POWER List Top 30 for Family Law by Missouri Lawyers Media since 2020., The POWER List Top 30 for Family Law, Missouri Lawyers Media, 2024
  • On March 4, 2024, it was announced that Kirk Stange was recognized as the #10 author on family law in JD Supra’s 2024 Readers’ Choice Awards., JD Supra's Readers' Choice Awards, JD Supra, 2024
  • Kirk Stange recognized as a Top Rated Lawyer, since 2016., Top Rated Lawyers, Lawyers of Distinction, 2024
  • On March 6, 2023, it was announced that Kirk Stange was recognized as the #7 author on family law in JD Supra’s 2023 Readers’ Choice Awards., JD Supra's Readers' Choice Awards, JD Supra, 2023
  • Kirk named Top 100 Lawyers by The National Advocates since 2015., Top 100 Lawyers, The National Advocates, 2022
  • Kirk Stange was Family Lawyer Magazine Recommended since 2019., Family Lawyer Magazine Recognizes, Family Lawyer Magazine, 2022
  • Kirk awarded Top 10 Family Law Attorney in Missouri, National Academy of Family Law Attorneys (NAFLA), Selected 2014 to Present., Top 10 Family Law Attorney in Missouri, National Academy of Family Law Attorneys (NAFLA), 2022
  • Kirk named Top 100 Trial Lawyers in National Trial Lawyers since 2014., Top 100 Trial Lawyers, National Trial Lawyers, 2021
  • Kirk Stange has been recognized as the Nation's Top One Percent by the National Association of Distinguished Counsel since 2015., Nation's Top One Percent, National Association of Distinguished Counsel, 2020
  • 10 Best for Client Satisfaction in Missouri by the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys since 2014., 10 Best for Client Satisfaction in Missouri, American Institute of Family Law Attorneys, 2019
  • Kirk was named a Premier 100 Civil Trial Attorneys  by The National Academy of Jurisprudence since 2015, Premier 100 Civil Trial Attorneys, The National Academy of Jurisprudence, 2018
  • Kirk named 10 Best Attorneys in Illinois for Client Satisfaction by the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys in 2016 and 2018., 10 Best Attorneys in Illinois for Client Satisfaction, American Institute of Family Law Attorneys, 2018
  • Kirk named Top 100 Family Lawyer in Missouri by the American Society of Legal Advocates since 2015., Top 100 Family Lawyer in Missouri, American Society of Legal Advocates, 2018
  • Kirk named Top 10 Family Law Attorneys in Missouri by Attorney & Practice Magazine in 2018., Top 10 Family Law Attorneys in Missouri, Attorney & Practice Magazine, 2018
  • Kirk named Best Attorneys of America by Rue Ratings since 2015., Best Attorneys of America, Rue Ratings, 2018
  • Kirk Stange Recognized by the Missouri Bar, December 8, 2017, Kirk Recongized by the Missouri Bar, Missouri Bar, 2017
  • Kirk named 2017 Top 10 Family Law Attorneys- Missouri by American Jurist Institute in 2017., 2017 Top 10 Family Law Attorneys- Missouri, American Jurist Institute, 2017
  • Kirk Stange is an Associate Member of the Global Collaborative Law Council, Associate Member, Global Collaborative Law Council, 2016
  • Kirk is named America's Top Attorneys by The American Legal Institute in 2016, America's Top Attorneys, The American Legal Institute, 2016
  • Kirk named Top 10 Family Law Attorneys for Missouri by American Jurist Institute in 2016., Top 10 Family Law Attorneys for Missouri, American Jurist Institute, 2016
  • Kirk named Top 40 Lawyers Under 40 for Missouri Family Law by the American Society of Legal Advocates (ASLA) in 2014., Top 40 Lawyers Under 40 for Missouri Family Law, American Society of Legal Advocates, 2014
  • Kirk named Top Ranked U.S. Executives by the National Council of American Executives in 2014. , Top Ranked U.S. Executives, National Council of American Executives, 2014
  • Kirk named Rising Star in Missouri and Kansas Super Lawyers in 2013 and 2014., Rising Star, Super Lawyers - Thomson Reuters, 2014
  • The Order of the Barristers is a national law school honor society founded for the purpose of promoting legal advocacy and of advancing the ethical standards of the legal profession. Members are selected based upon participation and excellence in the advocacy programs of the School of Law., Order of the Barristers, University of Missouri-Columbia School of Law, 2000
  • Kirk named Executive Officer, Board of Advocates, University of Missouri Columbia School of Law, Columbia, Missouri, 2000, Executive Officer, Board of Advocates, University of Missouri Columbia School of Law, 2000
  • A national honors society for educators., Pi Lambda Theta Honors Society, Fontbonne University, 1997
  • Finalist, Fontbonne University Student Leader of the Year Award, Fontbonne University, 1997, Fontbonne University Student Leader of the Year Award, Fontbonne University, 1997
  • Phi Alpha Delta Legal Fraternity

Office location for Kirk C. Stange

120 S. Central Avenue
Suite 450
Clayton, MO 63105

Phone: 866-630-1107

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  • Super Lawyers: 2015 - 2025
  • Rising Stars: 2013 - 2014

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