Amy Wechsler

Amy Wechsler

Attorney Profile

Top Rated Family Law Attorney in Warren, NJ

Shimalla, Wechsler, Lepp & D'Onofrio, LLP
 | 101 Town Center Drive Suite 117, Warren, NJ 07059-0643
Phone: 908-753-3833
Fax: 908-753-4189
Selected To Super Lawyers: 2005 - 2021
Licensed Since: 1985
Practice Areas:
  • Family Law (60%),
  • Alternative Dispute Resolution (40%)


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    Attorney Profile

                Amy Wechsler is a Certified Matrimonial Attorney, an accredited divorce and family mediator, a trained Collaborative Divorce attorney, and partner in Shimalla, Wechsler, Lepp & D’Onforio, L.L.P., in Warren, New Jersey, a firm devoted to family law, mediation and collaborative divorce.  She has practiced law since 1985, and has mediated privately and through court programs since 1995. A former chair of the District XIII Attorney Ethics Committee, she received the NJ Commission on Professionalism Professional Lawyer of the Year Award for Somerset County in 2005.  She currently serves on the NJ State Bar Association Family Law Executive Committee (Co-Chair, Children’s Rights Subcommittee), Immediate Past President of the Somerset County Bar Association, Treasurer of the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts-New Jersey, a panelist on the Matrimonial Early Settlement Panels for Hunterdon and Somerset Counties, Trustee of the NJ Collaborative Law Group, and Chair of the NJ Collaborative Law Group Education Committee.


           Ms. Wechsler has lectured and authored articles on divorce and family law issues sponsored by the N.J. Institute for Continuing Legal Education (ICLE), the N.J.Association of Professional Mediators (NJAPM), the NJ Society of CPAs, Association of Family and Conciliation Courts-New Jersey (AFCC-NJ; the Association of Divorce Financial Planners (ADFP), and the Somerset County Bar Association (SCBA).  She is a member of the faculty of the ICLE Mediation Training Program and the ICLE Collaborative Law Training Program.


    Before attending Rutgers School of Law - Newark, Ms. Wechsler earned a Masters Degree in Social Work from Rutgers University, and a B.S. in Child Development and Family Relations from the University of Connecticut.

    Certificates and Credentials

    American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers

    About Amy Wechsler

    Admitted: 1985, New Jersey

    Professional Webpage:


    • Each year, the bar association of each county selects a member who represents professionalism in the practice of law, Professional Lawyer of the Year - Somerset County, 2005

    Special Licenses/Certifications:

    • Certified Matrimonial Attorney, New Jersey Supreme Court, since 1998; Accredited Professional Mediator, New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators, since 1997, 1998

    Bar/Professional Activity:

    • Past President, Somerset County Bar Association and Member/Trustee/Mediator/Chair and Co-Chair of Family Law Committee since 1993; President, Association of Family and Conciliation Courts - New Jersey Chapter, 2017 - present, Treasurer 2010 - 2017, and member since 2005; Association of Professional Mediators, Trustee, 1997 - 2001 and member since 1994; Somerset County Court House, Custody Mediator, 1995 - Present; Roster of Mediators for Economic Issues in Divorce Matters, 1999 - Present; New Jersey State Bar Association, Member, 1994; New Jersey State Bar Association, Family Law Executive Committee, 2007 - present, chair/co-chair Children's Rights Subcommittee 2017-19; Central Jersey Family Inn of Court, Steering Committee and Master, 1996 - 1999; Matrimonial Early Settlement Panel, Panelist, 1991 - District XIII Attorney Ethics Committee, Chair/Vice-Chair/Member, 1998 - 2001.

    Scholarly Lectures/Writings:

    • Communications made during a collaborative family law process are confidential by law.  Communications between counsel and clients in deciding whether to proceed collaboratively are not.  This article describes how to include those pre-collaborative communications as confidential., Speaker, Protecting Communications Made Prior to Signing a Collaborative Participation Agreement, ICLE - Hot Tips Seminar, 2015
    • This article explores parental custody rights and how parents can identify and seek treatment/court remedies when children refuse or resist contact with one of the parents, along with how attorneys can help address the problem., article, The Alienated Child: Choosing the Right Interventions, NJ Family Lawyer, 2018
    • Article describes the court rules and purported purpose of custody and parenting time/visitation plans, and why they may be prejudicial to a case., article, Custody and Parenting Time/Visitation Plans – What Are They and (Why) Do We Do Them?, NJ Family Lawyer, 2015
    • Describes a lawyer's ethical responsibilities to properly advise clients of all options, including risks and benefits of alternative dispute resolution as well as litigation., Article, Advising Clients about CDR Options and Litigation – What Is a Lawyer’s Responsibility?, NJ Family Lawyer, 2016
    • Sibling relationships as a factor in determining custody and parenting plans, Lecture/article, The Importance of Sibling Relationships in Custody and Parenting Time Determinations, ICLE, Family, 2018

    Other Outstanding Achievements:

    • Top 50 Women Lawyers in NJ , 2018
    • Professional Lawyer of the Year - Somerset County, 2005

    Educational Background:

    • Master of Social Work, Rutgers University, 1976
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    Office Location for Amy Wechsler

    101 Town Center Drive Suite 117
    Warren, NJ 07059-0643

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    Last Updated: 1/15/2020

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