Deborah L. Dilman

Deborah L. Dilman is a dedicated family law attorney serving the greater Charlotte metropolitan area from the firm Modern Legal, located in Charlotte, North Carolina. Her extensive experience includes litigation, negotiation, mediation and collaborative law. She focuses her practice on matters such as child custody, spousal agreements, child support, divorce and so on.

Ms. Dilman is a trained collaborative attorney and a certified mediator by the North Carolina Dispute Resolution Commission in both family financial and superior court matters. This well-rounded skill set allows her to approach each case with creativity and flexibility, always focused on finding solutions that prioritize her clients’ best interests.

With a unique background that bridges the financial industry and the legal field, Ms. Dilman brings both analytical insight and compassionate advocacy to every case she handles. Before pursuing her legal career, she spent many years in business, earning her undergraduate degree in business from Queens University in Charlotte. Driven by a desire to create lasting impact in her community, she returned to school and earned her law degree from Syracuse University College of Law.

Ms. Dilman began her legal career with Legal Aid in Winston-Salem, advocating for underserved families. Since 2005, she has focused exclusively on family law, helping clients navigate emotionally challenging issues such as separation, divorce, child custody and support. She believes that family law is not just about legal outcomes; it’s about empowering clients to make informed decisions that lead to long-term stability and growth.

Ms. Dilman has also served the community as president of the Council for Children’s Rights and has represented children through the Custody Advocacy Program for over 15 years. She remains active in several professional associations, including the North Carolina State Bar, the North Carolina Bar Association Dispute Resolution Section (former President), and the Mecklenburg County Bar, where she previously chaired the Family Law Section.

Licensed in North Carolina, Ms. Dilman continues to serve as a trusted advocate for families seeking clarity, strength and lasting resolution.