Practice areas: Family Law
Licensed in North Carolina since: 1985
Education: Campbell University Norman Adrian Wiggins School of Law
Benton Family Law
PO Box 947Goldsboro, NC 27533 Phone: 919-736-3076 Email: Shelby D. Benton Visit website
Shelby Duffy Benton has practiced family law in Eastern North Carolina for over 39 years. Ms. Benton is a Board Certified Family Law Specialist. She represents clients in litigation, mediation, and arbitration. She is known not only for the superb quality of her analysis, preparation and advocacy skills, but also for conducting her practice with grace, collaboration and consideration for all involved. She has served as the President of the North Carolina Bar Association 2015-2016, as a member of it's Board of Governors 2010 - 2013 and as Chair of the NCBA Family Law Section 2009-2010. She currently chairs the NCBA Legislative Advisory Committee. Ms. Benton is a frequent speaker at continuing legal education programs on family law. She is a Fellow in the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers. She serves as a Commissioner on the NC Domestic Violence Commission where she chairs the Victim Services Committee. Ms. Benton has served as a trustee on the Interest on Lawyer Trust Account Board and currently is serving as chair. In 2012 she was honored by the NCBA with a Citizen Lawyer Award and by NC Lawyers Weekly with a Women of Justice Award. Best Lawyers named her Lawyer of the Year 2013 for Family Law-Raleigh Area. In 2015 she was honored as a Distinguished Alumna by Campbell University. In 2019, the Family Law Section of the NCBA recognized her with their Distinguished Service Award and she received the first Wayne County Women of the Year Award from the Wayne County Chamber of Commerce. In 2022, the NC State Bar honored her with the John B. McMillan Distinguished Service Award, the only award given by the NC State Bar. In 2023 NC Lawyers Weekly named her as an “Icon” in the legal profession. She is a graduate of Campbell Law School and NCSU.
First Admitted: 1985, North Carolina
Professional Webpage: http://bentonfamilylaw.com/shelby-duffy-benton.html
Bar / Professional Activity
- Fellow, American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers , 2013
- Diplomate, American College of Family Trial Lawyers, 2025
- Chair, NCBA Legislative Advisory Committee, 2026
- Member, NC State Bar Board of Legal Specialization for Family Law, 2026
- Commissioner, NC Domestic Violence Commission, 2026
- President North Carolina Bar Association, 2015
- Trustee, NC IOLTA Board and Chair 2023-2025
- North Carolina Board of Paralegal Certification 2012-2018
- NC Delegate to the American Bar Association House of Delegates , 2018
- 8th Judicial District State Bar Councilor , 2013
- Board of Governors of North Carolina Bar Association, 2010
- 2009-2010 Chair of NCBA Family Law Section;2008-2009 Vice Chair NCBA Family Law Section; Past President 8th Judicial District Bar; Past President Wayne County Bar
Special Licenses / Certifications
- Mediator for Family Financial Settlement by the NCDRC, 2026
- Certified in Arbitration by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers , 2021
- Board Certified Specialist in Family Law, 1995
Pro bono / Community Service
- Participant NC Free Legal Answers, 2026
- Participant in Lawyer on the Line program of NCBA, 2026
Educational Background
- BA, North Carolina State University in Political Science/Criminal Justice, 1982
Scholarly Lectures / Writings
- Moderated panel of 3 people to speak on NIL and Influencers and how that intersects with Family Law in Property, Support and Custody., Moderator, The Value of a Brand: Name, Image and Likeness & social Media Influencers, NCBA, Family Law, 2026
- Co-Planner of 2-day intensive family law seminar, Planner, Human Intelligence: The Algorithm and Beyond-Human Advocacy in the Digital Era, NCBA, Family Law, 2026
Honors
- H. Brent McKnight Renaissance Lawyer Award, NCBA, 2026
- Icon Award, NC Lawyers Weekly, 2023
- John B. McMillan Distinguished Service Award, NC State Bar, 2022
- Distinguished Service Award, NCBA Family Law Section, 2019
- Wayne County Women of the Year, Wayne County Chamber of Commerce, 2019
- Distinguished Service Award, NCBA Family Law Section, 2018
- Distinguished Alumna, Campbell University, 2015
- Lawyer of the Year - Family Law - Raleigh Area, Best Lawyers, 2013
- Women of Justice Award - Litigation, NC Lawyers Weekly, 2012
- Citizen Lawyer Award, NCBA, 2012
Selections
- Super Lawyers: 2010 - 2026
Top Lists
Top 50: Women North Carolina Super Lawyers: 2011, 2014, 2021 - 2025- Top 50: 2025 Women North Carolina Super Lawyers
- Top 50: 2024 Women North Carolina Super Lawyers
- Top 50: 2023 Women North Carolina Super Lawyers
- Top 50: 2022 Women North Carolina Super Lawyers
- Top 50: 2021 Women North Carolina Super Lawyers
- Top 50: 2014 Women North Carolina Super Lawyers
- Top 50: 2011 Women North Carolina Super Lawyers