Heather Z. Bliss

Bar / Professional Activity

• Tacoma Pierce County Bar Association 2001- to present
• How To Manage a Small Law Firm Member since 2015 to present 
• Crisp Legal Conference Member since 2022- present
• Iron Sharpens Iron - 2021 to present
• International Academy of Collaborative Professionals - 2020 to present
• Washington State Bar Association - 2000 to present, 2000
• The Collaborative Law Profession of Pierce County - 2020 to present
• United States District Court, 2001
• American Bar Association - 2001 to present
• Pierce County Chapter of Washington Women Lawyers - Founding Member
• Personal Family Lawyer with Family Wealth Planning Institute - 2021 to present

Videos

• Bliss Law Group-A Divorce & Family Law Firm serving Pierce and Thurston Counties in Washington State, Bliss Law Group-A Divorce & Family Law Firm serving Pierce and Thurston Counties in Washington State, 2024
• With Bliss Law Group, You Have a True Advocate, With Bliss Law Group, You Have a True Advocate, 2024
• Attorney Heather Bliss and her team discuss putting clients first., Putting the Client First | Bliss Law Group, 2023
• Attorney Heather Bliss outlines the divorce process in Washington State., From Filing to Finalizing: An Overview of the Divorce Process in Washington State, 2024

Representative Clients

• "As a fellow attorney and business owner, I am impressed by Heather Bliss's dedication to providing quality services for the clients her team helps. You will be in good hands with the Bliss Law Group!"5-Star Client Review, 2022
• "Heather and her office at Bliss Law Firm handled my high conflict family law case about 5 years ago. I was thoroughly impressed with their attention to detail, knowledge and their aggressiveness in fighting for a favorable outcome for their clients. Without their extensive knowledge of the intricacies of family law, I know that I would not have received the outcome that I did. Fast forward 5 years later, another highly stressful situation developed and as anyone who has experienced the level of anxiety and apprehension that goes along with family law cases, I knew exactly who to reach out to. Despite Heather being 3,000 miles away on a business conference, she had her team reach out to me the same day I reached out to her for assistance. Heather remembered me by name and remembered every detail of my case from 5 years ago! As usual with her expertise and knowledge, I was put at ease immediately. I have always been impressed by the level of detail, dedication, respect and compassion that Heather and her office had for me. But to reach out to me during her personal time 3,000 miles away on a weekend to make sure my needs were addressed immediately during a stressful time made my respect and appreciation for Heather and her law firm rise exponentially. I know with full confidence that you will be in the best possible hands with Heather and her office at Bliss Law Firm on your side!" 5-Star Client Review, 2021
• "She got me custody of my son a few years ago. Her advice was spot on and her team was on the ball. Best lawyer I ever worked with" 5-Star Client Review, 2021

Pro bono / Community Service

• Heather and her husband, Matt, are honored to serve as the honorary chairs for Bellarmine Preparatory School’s 35th Anniversary Gala in 2026. As proud parents of two Bellarmine students, they deeply value the school’s mission and recognize the importance of fostering community support to ensure its continued success.     In 2025, the Bellarmine Gala auction raised an impressive $1.1 million for tuition assistance. This vital effort helps ensure that Bellarmine remains dedicated to providing a college preparatory education to all students, regardless of financial need. Bellarmine students benefit from an exceptional educational experience that includes rigorous academics, a vibrant co-curricular life, and distinctive programs such as retreats and Ignatian Formation classes., 2026

Educational Background

• Seattle University School of Law, 2000
• University of Puget Sound, Bachelor of Arts, 1997

White Papers

• This guide provides a step-by-step overview of the divorce process in Washington State, along with a glossary of essential terms to aid understanding., From Filing to Finalizing - An Overview of the Divorce Process in WA State, Family Law, Collaborative Law, 2024

Other Outstanding Achievements

• The Small Law Firm Radio Hour hosted by RJon Robins, Esq., CEO & Founder of How to Manage a Small Law Firm
• Young Lawyer Mentor Event, Building and Maintaining a Successful Law Firm
• Tacoma Pierce County Bar Association, Panel on Professionalism 

Firm News (Newsletters)

• If there’s one thing I’ve learned—both as a family law attorney and as a person navigating this wild, beautiful life—it’s this: every challenge holds an opportunity, even if it doesn’t look or feel like it right away. There are moments when everything seems to be unraveling. A relationship ends. A plan falls through. A truth comes to light that shakes the foundation you thought was solid. It’s human to feel fear, frustration, or even grief in those moments. But over and over again, I’ve witnessed something extraordinary—not just in my own life, but in the lives of the families we serve at BLG: What feels like falling apart may actually be falling into place. Sometimes, the hardest chapters are clearing the path for something far more aligned. The chaos becomes clarity. The loss becomes liberation. And through it all, we become stronger and wiser.At Bliss Law Group, we don’t just help people navigate legal transitions—we walk with them through life’s most challenging turning points. So, if you’re in a season of uncertainty, I invite you to breathe. Be still. Trust that what feels heavy now may be shaping something extraordinary., When It Feels Like Everything Is Falling Apart
• Divorce is more than just a legal process—it’s a profound life change, and with that often comes stress, uncertainty, and emotional upheaval. But what if you could reclaim your peace amidst the chaos? Take a moment to consider the following questions: What if I focused on what I can control instead of what I can’t? What if this challenge could be the opportunity to finally prioritize my well-being?  Stress isn't just a feeling—it affects every aspect of your life. It can impact your emotional well-being, cloud your judgment, and make it harder to think clearly. It seeps into your relationships, work, and even your health, making it harder to manage your day-to-day tasks.   In times of transition, like divorce, stress can feel overwhelming, but understanding its impact and learning how to cope is key to regaining control and moving forward with confidence.I invite you to explore the following tips to help manage stress during divorce:Stay grounded: Focus on what you can control. Take one step at a time.Prioritize self-care: It’s not selfish. Exercise, eat well, and get enough sleep.Set boundaries: Clear communication with your ex can reduce stress and conflict.   At Bliss Law Group, we guide our clients through the divorce process with compassion, knowledge, and strong legal strategy. Whether you're dealing with custody issues, asset division, or emotional stress, we’re here to help you make empowered decisions and reach a resolution that’s in your best interest.Remember stress during divorce doesn’t just affect you—if you have children, it also impacts them. They may pick up on tension, feel uncertain, or act out in response to changes. Recognizing signs like increased anxiety, withdrawal, or trouble concentrating can help you address their needs.   It's important to create a calm, supportive environment and reassure them that both parents will always be there for them. By managing your stress, you not only protect your own well-being but also help your children adjust more smoothly to the transition. It’s easy to feel lost in stress, but remember, you don’t have to face it alone. Acknowledge the weight of what you’re carrying, and take small, intentional steps to lighten it. Whether it’s leaning on support, practicing self-care, or giving yourself grace during tough moments, your well-being matters. Be gentle with yourself; stress doesn’t define you, but how you manage it can lead to healing and growth., Finding Calm in the Storm: Managing Stress During Divorce
• There’s a quiet wisdom in nature: the tree doesn’t resist the fall of its leaves. It doesn’t question the frost of winter or cling to the blooms of spring.   It simply allows each season to arrive, to teach, to pass — trusting that growth is happening, even when it’s invisible.   In life, especially during family transitions, we often struggle with this. We cling tightly to seasons we wish would never end, or fight against those we never wanted in the first place. But seasons are inevitable. Change is inevitable. And the harder we resist, the more we rob ourselves of the hidden gifts within the moment.   At Bliss Law Group, we sit with families in every season: the stormy, the calm, the uncertain, and the hopeful. We’ve learned that the path to peace often begins with acceptance. When we stop fighting the reality of change, we create space to heal, to learn, and to grow stronger. This season, we invite you to trust the process of change. Not because it’s easy — but because it’s necessary., The Tree Does Not Resist the Fall of its Leaves
• What would you do if fear wasn’t holding you back? How many opportunities—whether in your personal life, career, or relationships—have you let pass by simply because the unknown felt too overwhelming?   Fear is a powerful force. It can hold us back, keep us stuck in uncertainty, and make even the most necessary changes feel impossible. Whether it’s the fear of the unknown, the fear of failure, or the fear of losing control, we all encounter moments in life where fear threatens to dictate our choices.   We see this every day in family law—clients are facing life-altering decisions about their future, their children, and their financial security. The fear of making the wrong move can be paralyzing, leading many to delay action or stay in situations that no longer serve them.   But here’s what I’ve learned over 25 years of guiding individuals and families through complex legal matters: fear loses its power when you face it head-on, armed with the right knowledge, strategy, and support.  Fear, however, isn’t confined to the legal realm. It shows up in our careers, our personal relationships, our financial decisions, and even in our own perceptions of what we are capable of achieving. The fear of change can keep someone in a career they’ve outgrown. The fear of rejection can stop someone from pursuing new opportunities. The fear of failure can prevent someone from taking a bold step toward something greater. But the reality is that growth—true growth—only happens when we push through those fears.  At Bliss Law Group, our work is centered on helping clients navigate fear and uncertainty with strength and confidence. No matter how complex the divorce, or contentious the parenting dispute, we bring the discernment, legal strategy, and tenacious advocacy needed to help our clients make decisions that serve their best interests—now and in the future.   Beyond family law, I encourage everyone to consider the role fear may be playing in their lives. Is it keeping you from making a change you know is necessary? From advocating for yourself? From taking a step toward something better? The most successful individuals—whether in business, leadership, or personal life—are the ones who recognize fear for what it is: an obstacle that can be overcome with the right mindset, tools, and support system. My message to anyone who may be feeling stuck and afraid:  You don’t have to have all the answers right now—you just need to take the first step. Face your fears, make informed choices, and know that you are not alone in the journey., Navigating Uncertainty: Fear, Change, and the Power of Action
• With winter weather and frosty mornings upon us, I can’t help but reflect on the power of fresh starts and the beauty of transitions. Just as the seasons change, so do the chapters of our lives. Some bring joy and new beginnings—others, uncertainty and challenge.  A new year, much like a fresh snowfall, offers a chance to reset, refocus, and embrace the possibilities ahead—whether that means turning the page on a difficult chapter or stepping forward with renewed confidence.   At Bliss Law Group, we know that transitions, especially those involving family, can be deeply emotional and complex. Divorce, parenting plans, and modifications can feel overwhelming, but we also believe that every change holds the potential for growth, healing, and a stronger future. Our role is to guide our clients through these seasons of life with clarity, compassion, and support, helping them navigate challenges with dignity and hope.   To our incredible referral partners—your trust in our team means the world to us. Your dedication to serving your clients with care and integrity aligns perfectly with our mission, and we’re honored to be a resource for you. If there’s anything we can do to support you and the families you serve, please don’t hesitate to reach out.  Let’s make this year one of resilience, progress, and positive change for those who need it most. Wishing you a year filled with peace, purpose, and new beginnings.  , Embracing the Seasons of Life
• Being named one of Washington’s Best Workplaces is more than just an honor; it’s a reflection of our dedication to cultivating a workplace where top talent can excel. At BLG, we believe that our greatest asset is our people. We invest in their growth, provide opportunities for advancement, and nurture a culture of collaboration and respect., Bliss Law Group Named One of Washington’s Best Workplaces by Puget Sound Business Journal, Collaborative Law, Family Law
• In most cases, yes—an ex-wife can claim a share of your military pension years after divorce if the original decree or court order awarded her a portion. Under the Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act (USFSPA), state courts may treat military retired pay as divisible marital property, and orders like a divorce decree or Qualified Domestic Relations Order control what’s owed. There’s no federal statute of limitations on enforcing an existing award, though state rules can affect how and when orders are modified or enforced. If the decree didn’t award pension rights, reopening the case later is typically limited to narrow circumstances set by state law. For payment administration, compliance with the court order is key; DFAS will honor properly drafted, court-certified orders., Can an Ex-Wife Claim My Military Pension Years After Divorce (WA State)
• In Washington State, common law marriage is not recognized, meaning couples cannot become legally married simply by living together. However, Washington does recognize common law marriages that were validly established in other states. For couples residing in Washington who have lived together in a marriage-like relationship without formalizing it, the courts may classify their partnership as a “Committed Intimate Relationships” (CIR). While not equivalent to marriage, a CIR allows courts to address issues like property division and financial support during a separation, offering similar protections under family law., Is There Common Law Marriage in Washington State
• While you do not necessarily need a lawyer for child support, hiring a lawyer can help ensure your child receives the financial support needed and deserved. Sometimes straightforward cases may not require legal assistance, complexities often arise where an experienced lawyer becomes invaluable., Do I Need a Lawyer for Child Support
• Preparing for divorce involves organizing your finances, understanding your legal rights, and planning for the road ahead. In Washington State, this means gathering key documents (like tax returns and bank statements), creating a budget, opening separate accounts, and learning about custody and property division laws. Many individuals also benefit from consulting a divorce attorney, exploring mediation options, and building emotional and professional support systems., Washington State Divorce Checklist: How To Prepare
• In Washington, divorce takes a minimum of 90 days (the mandatory waiting period) from the date your spouse is served, but timelines vary widely. Uncontested cases with no children often finish in about 3–4 months; add children and it typically takes longer to finalize parenting plans. Contested divorces—disputes over custody, support, or property—commonly run 6–12+ months, and high-conflict or complex cases can last 1–2 years (especially if experts, extensive discovery, or trial are needed). Mediation and early settlement conferences can shorten the process; multiple motions, continuances, and crowded court dockets extend it., How Long Does a Divorce Take in Washington
• An uncontested divorce is a streamlined legal process where both spouses agree on all major terms of the separation, including child custody, property division, and financial support. Since there are no disputes to litigate, uncontested divorces typically move faster, cost less, and involve minimal court appearances. Once a written settlement agreement is submitted and approved by the court, the divorce can be finalized without the need for a trial. A skilled divorce lawyer can provide the necessary legal guidance and personal consideration to navigate the process smoothly. We will gladly assist you in building a divorce agreement that meets your needs outside the courtroom., What is An Uncontested Divorce
• Filing first doesn’t change the legal standards that decide your case—property is divided under state law, and parenting arrangements turn on the child’s best interests. But it can offer strategic advantages: you choose the filing venue, set the initial pace, and are first to request temporary orders for finances, parenting time, and restraints. You also get a head start on gathering documents, framing the facts, and protecting assets. The impact is practical, not automatic—use it when timing, venue, or early temporary relief matters to your situation., Does It Matter Who Files for Divorce First
• In a divorce, who gets the house depends on whether it’s considered community or separate property, the financial situation of each spouse, and the best interests of any children. In Washington, a community property state, courts aim for a just & equitable division—this may involve one spouse keeping the home by buying out the other’s share, refinancing, or selling the property and dividing the proceeds. If you have your heart set on keeping the house, the experienced Washington state divorce attorneys at Bliss Law Group can help you., Who Gets the House in a Divorce in Washington State
• You’re contemplating divorce, and alongside the emotional weight, you’re facing an urgent practical question: how much does divorce cost? While the beginning of a marriage often focuses on hopeful future plans together, divorce proceedings involve complex legal processes and various costs that can quickly accumulate. Understanding the potential financial implications of ending your marriage in Washington State can help you budget appropriately and make informed decisions about which approach makes the most sense for your situation., How Much Does Divorce Cost
• In Washington State, child custody is set through a Parenting Plan filed in superior court after you open a case and serve the other parent. Judges decide based on the child’s “best interests,” weighing each parent’s involvement, the child’s emotional/developmental needs, stability, any history of abuse or substance issues, and each parent’s ability to co-parent. Most cases resolve through negotiation or mediation; if disputes persist, the court can appoint a custody evaluator or guardian ad litem to investigate and make recommendations. Final orders set decision-making (legal custody) and the residential schedule (physical custody), with future modifications allowed only if there’s a substantial change in circumstances., Washington State Child Custody Laws
• In Tacoma (and throughout Washington), you cannot serve your own divorce papers—someone 18+ and not a party must hand-deliver the Summons and Petition to your spouse. Acceptable servers include a friend, a professional process server, or the Pierce County Sheriff; the server then completes a Proof of Personal Service and you file it with the court to start Washington’s 90-day waiting period. If your spouse won’t accept service, the server may leave papers near them after identifying the documents; if they’re out of state, personal service there is valid but can affect deadlines. When personal service isn’t possible, you can request court permission for alternate service (e.g., by mail with signed acknowledgment, publication, or electronic means with good cause). Special rules apply for active-duty military under the SCRA (additional protections and consent/waiver requirements), so plan service accordingly., How To Serve Divorce Papers in Washington State
• In Washington, a contested divorce means you and your spouse disagree on one or more issues—property/debt division, parenting plan (custody/support), or spousal maintenance—so the court must decide. The case typically involves filing and service, temporary orders, discovery (financial disclosures, subpoenas, evaluations), mandatory mediation/settlement efforts, and, if unresolved, a trial where a judge rules under state standards (best interests of the child; just and equitable division of community/separate property). Timelines commonly run 6–12+ months beyond the 90-day waiting period, and costs rise with conflict, expert involvement, and multiple hearings. Many cases settle before trial, but if not, the judge’s final orders control parenting, support, and division of assets and debts., Understanding Contested Divorce in Washington State
• Divorce in Washington State operates under a no-fault system where neither spouse needs to prove wrongdoing to end their marriage. The state follows community property laws for dividing assets and debts acquired during marriage, while prioritizing children’s best interests in custody decisions. Understanding these fundamental principles of divorce in Washington State, along with residency requirements and the legal process, helps couples understand divorce proceedings and protect their rights. For professional guidance, consider consulting a divorce lawyer., The Basics of Divorce in Washington State
• Washington state operates under a no-fault Washington state divorce law system, which means you can obtain a divorce without proving that either spouse committed wrongdoing. Consulting a divorce lawyer early in the process can help protect your rights and navigate complex procedures. The state follows community property principles when dividing marital assets and debts, and requires a mandatory 90-day waiting period before any divorce can be finalized. Washington courts prioritize the best interests of children in all custody decisions and require detailed parenting plans for couples with minor children., Divorce Laws in Washington State
• Finding a good divorce lawyer involves a thoughtful and strategic approach to ensure you receive effective representation during a potentially complex legal process. Start by seeking referrals from trusted friends, family members, or professional advisors who’ve experienced divorce. Next, use state or local bar association lawyer referral services and browse reputable legal directories like the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML), Avvo, or Martindale-Hubbell to evaluate credentials, specialties, and peer reviews. Schedule consultations with potential attorneys to assess their experience, communication style, and strategy. For those with limited income, consider legal aid options through nonprofits or state-sponsored services., Finding The Right Divorce Lawyer for You
• When you’re facing divorce in Washington State, you might be wondering what is a wife entitled to in a divorce in Washington State. You’re entitled to an equitable share of all community property acquired during your marriage, potential spousal support based on your financial circumstances, and fair consideration for child custody arrangements. Washington operates under community property laws, which means most assets and debts obtained during marriage belong equally to both spouses, regardless of whose name appears on titles or accounts. If you need guidance, reach out to a qualified divorce attorney., What a Wife is Entitled to in a Washington State Divorce
• In a divorce, splitting assets involves identifying all property and debts, classifying them as either separate (owned before the marriage or inherited) or community/marital property (acquired during the marriage). In Washington, a community property state, marital assets are typically divided equally, while separate property generally stays with the original owner. If spouses cannot agree on a division, the court intervenes and distributes assets based on what is “just and equitable,” considering factors like each spouse’s financial situation, contributions, and future needs. A negotiated agreement is often preferable to avoid court-imposed outcomes. Working with your Divorce Attorney’s to negotiate a property settlement often results in arrangements that better meet both parties’ needs than court-imposed solutions. This approach gives you more control over the outcome and typically costs less than litigation., How Are Split Assets in a Divorce
• Washington state embraces a no-fault divorce system, allowing couples to end their marriages without assigning blame or proving wrongdoing. This approach simplifies the divorce process and reduces the emotional strain often associated with traditional fault-based divorces. If you’re considering divorce in Washington, understanding the state’s no-fault divorce system is crucial for navigating the legal landscape effectively., What is a No Fault Divorce in Washington
• Deciding to end a marriage is never easy, but understanding the divorce process in Washington State can help make the transition smoother. This article will guide you through the initial steps of how to start divorce process in Washington, from meeting residency requirements to serving papers to your spouse and beyond., How to Start the Divorce Process
• Divorce for high net worth individuals can be a complex and emotionally challenging process for anyone, but high-net worth individuals in Washington State face unique obstacles when dissolving their marriages. The intricacies of asset division, spousal maintenance, and child support become exponentially more complicated when substantial wealth is involved. This article aims to provide a comprehensive overview of the key factors that high-net worth individuals should consider when navigating divorce in Washington State., Understanding Divorce for High-Net Worth Individuals in Washington State
• Serving divorce papers is a crucial step in the divorce process in Washington State. Proper service ensures that your spouse is officially notified of the divorce proceedings and has the opportunity to respond. This article will guide you through the process of serving divorce papers in Washington State, including various methods, requirements, and important considerations., How To Serve Divorce Papers in Washington State
• Divorce is never easy, but mediation offers a cooperative alternative to traditional courtroom battles. Instead of leaving critical decisions up to a judge, mediation allows couples to work with a neutral third party to resolve key issues like property division, child custody, and financial support. This approach is often less stressful, more cost-effective, and gives you greater control over the outcome of your divorce. In Washington State, mediation has become a preferred choice for many couples seeking a more amicable resolution., The Basics of Divorce Mediation in Washington State
• Washington is one of nine states in the United States that follows community property laws. These laws significantly impact how married couples and registered domestic partners own and manage their assets, as well as how property is divided in the event of divorce or death. Understanding the nuances of community property in Washington is crucial for residents to effectively manage their finances and plan for the future., Community Property Laws in Washington State
• When you face divorce in Washington State, you’re entering a financial landscape shaped by distinctive community property laws that can profoundly impact your assets. If you’re searching for how to protect your assets from divorce, this article explains practical strategies and actionable steps to secure what is rightfully yours., How Can You Protect Your Assets in a Washington State Divorce
• Life never stays still for long. Children grow, jobs change, and family dynamics evolve in ways we often can’t predict. What once worked smoothly in your parenting plan might now feel out of step with your family’s needs. That’s normal — and expected. Just like nature moves through its seasons, so do our lives. Spring is a time of renewal, and it’s the perfect opportunity to step back and ask: Does our parenting plan still reflect the reality of our lives today?, Season's Change - And So Should Your Parenting Plan
• Bliss Law Group is honored to have Katrina on our team, and we are confident that she will continue to shine brightly as a leading family law attorney. Her recognition as a Rising Star is just the beginning of what promises to be an outstanding legal career., Katrina Otto: Rising Star in Family Law, Collaborative Law, Family Law
• We are incredibly grateful to the readers of the Tacoma News Tribune and the Pierce County community for this recognition. As we look to the future, we remain committed to upholding the standards of excellence that have brought us here and continuing to serve our community with the same dedication that defines Bliss Law Group., Best of Pierce County, Family Law, Collaborative Law
• Summer break is a time that kids eagerly anticipate, filled with the promise of sunny days, outdoor adventures, and a break from the school routine. For co-parents, however, this season can bring unique challenges as they navigate the logistics of shared parenting during the extended break. At Bliss Law Group, we understand the complexities that can arise and are here to offer some helpful tips to ensure a smooth and enjoyable summer for everyone involved., Summer Tips for Co-Parenting
• Summer is just around the corner, and it’s the perfect time to start planning fun and enriching activities for your children. To help you get started, we’ve compiled a list of fantastic summer camps and activities happening in and around the South Sound region. Whether your child loves the outdoors, animals, music, or building with LEGO bricks, there’s something for everyone!, Summer Activities for KIds
• In this article, we’ll discuss the key considerations, potential implications, and steps involved in a contested divorce, empowering you to make informed decisions and achieve the best possible outcome for your unique situation., Understanding Contested Divorce in Washington
• Marriage is usually pretty simple—it’s either a yes or a no. Relationships, on the other hand, can get complicated. Have you ever heard of a “common-law marriage”? It’s when two people live together as a married couple without going through a formal wedding ceremony. Some states recognize these unions, but others do not., Is There Common Law Marriage in WA State?
• This comprehensive guide will walk you through the legal requirements and necessary steps involved in the Washington State divorce process, so you can make informed decisions and approach the process with more confidence.IMPORTANT: While the information provided below can be a helpful educational tool to understand how to file for divorce in Washington State, it’s important to note that it is not a substitute for legal advice or counsel. To ensure your rights are protected and the divorce process is navigated correctly, it’s best to consult with a Washington State family law attorney., How to File for Divorce in Washington State
• This is the most comprehensive guide on child custody in Washington State. Child custody is one of the most sensitive and important issues in family law. Sadly, 50% of children will experience the divorce of their parents during childhood, meaning one in two children will be impacted by divorce. If you are reading this, chances are you or someone you know is facing a child custody case in Washington State. Washington State refers to custody as “residential time.” The cases generally revolve around a Divorce, the Establishment of a Parenting Plan, or Modifying an Existing Parenting Plan. Cases involving one’s children are oftentimes very difficult , as is the process itself. As such, it is important to gather as much information as possible before proceeding., Washington State Custody Laws
• It’s common procedure to split property and other assets during a divorce. But what about pets? Since we form emotional bonds with our dogs, cats, and other pets, this can feel different than dividing inanimate objects such as cars, jewelry, or real estate. In the eyes of the court, however, pets are considered personal property. In addition, in Washington state, courts and judges don’t like to address pet custody during divorce proceedings, so often it needs to be handled in another way., Pet Custody During Divorce
• Divorce is more than a separation between two people. It can affect many other relationships in  your life as well. Hopefully, you have close friends and family you can rely on during this time.  But in many cases, divorce severs bonds with mutual friends you had with your ex-spouse or  causes some to feel like they have to choose between you and your ex.  , Building Friendships After Divorce
• Many of us share our personal lives on social media. If you’re getting a divorce, it may seem normal to share this, too. But be careful. Until the divorce is final, anything you post on social media or send emails can and likely will be used against you, Can Social Media Affect My Divorce
• According to the U.S. Census Bureau, the highest divorce rates in recent years are among people aged 55 to 64 — so-called “gray divorces.”  Here are a few things to consider as you plan for a divorce later in life., What to Expect When Getting Divorced in Your 60s
• Summer break can complicate even carefully considered parenting plans. This is especially true this year as shifting COVID-19 restrictions can make advance scheduling difficult. So, what do you do if you have a summer or holiday disagreement that you and your ex-spouse can’t resolve? Here are three ideas to consider., Resolving Summer Parenting Plan Disagreements
• After declining for several years in a row, the divorce rate in the U.S. reached a record low in 2019. But when COVID-19 began spreading across the country and the world in March 2020, it was assumed that quarantine measures, job losses, economic uncertainty, and the emotional toll of lockdown would produce a new surge of divorce cases. This compounded stress was tough enough on healthy relationships. But if a marriage was already in trouble, being cooped up with an estranged spouse seemed like a recipe for disaster., Impact of Covid on Divorce Rates
• You’ve tried everything to save your marriage. You discussed your differences, attended marriage counseling, and even tried a trial separation, but your spouse no longer wants to explore other options. They want a divorce. Even if it’s not what you want, it only takes one person to end a marriage and, unfortunately, there’s nothing you can do about that. We understand this is painful and difficult to accept, particularly if you haven’t had sufficient time to process your feelings of anger, sadness, grief, or regret., What If I Don't Want A Divorce
• Before you decide this message doesn’t apply to you, take a moment to think about yourself. Only you. The children still will be there. Your ex will too. Raising a family is tough; raising a family when you are divorced is another layer of difficult. But for right now, think about yourself as an individual being who needs to find a new way to manage life. Being single doesn’t mean being alone. It does mean you alone get to choose how to thrive!, What's Next
• Whether you have been co-parenting for years or are new to the experience, the restrictions we face this holiday season because of COVID-19 are unprecedented. Planning for your celebrations should be a joyous time for your children, for your extended family, and yes, for YOU.  Patience and preparation can help create positive and happy memories for everyone., Finding Happy In The Holidays
• Blended families are becoming more common and can be as close and loving as their traditional counterparts, but there may be an adjustment period in the beginning and as your life grows and changes., Tips For Blending Families

Honors

• Law Firm 500 recognizes the fastest growing law firms around the nation. Happy clients are ultimately what makes a law firm grow fast. For the eighth year in a row, law firms are being honored for the velocity of their growth, strategic vision, and unwavering commitment to succeed. The law firms on this list have been evaluated and ranked in order, based on gross revenues of the previous three years.  , Fastest Growing Law Firm in US - Honoree, Law Firm 500 - How to Manage a Small Law Firm, 2024
• Law Firm 500 recognizes the fastest growing law firms around the nation.  Law Firm 500 recognizes the fastest growing law firms around the nation. Happy clients are ultimately what makes a law firm grow fast. For the eighth year in a row, law firms are being honored for the velocity of their growth, strategic vision, and unwavering commitment to succeed. The law firms on this list have been evaluated and ranked in order, based on gross revenues of the previous three years., Fastest Growing Law Firms in US - Honoree, Law Firm 500 - How to Manage a Small Law Firm, 2025
• The 2025 Inc. 5000 list represents the fastest-growing private companies in America.  Companies on the 2025 Inc. 5000 list are ranked according to their percentage revenue growth over three years, from 2021 to 2024. To qualify, companies must be privately held, for-profit, based in the U.S., and independent (not subsidiaries or divisions of other companies) as of December 31, 2024. Companies must have been founded and generating revenue by March 31, 2021. The minimum revenue requirement is $100,000 for 2021 and $2 million for 2024. All honorees must pass Inc.’s editorial review., Inc. 5000 - Fastest Growing Law Firm in America, Inc. 5000, 2025
• Our Tacoma family law attorneys exist, first and foremost, to protect you and your family. We protect your family by assisting with family law needs. Family law needs include divorce, child custody, child support, and modification of orders. We strive to promote a positive and secure environment for families like yours. Our firm understands that every divorce is unique. We will do everything in our power to achieve the most beneficial outcome. We do this by means of alternative dispute resolution methods like mediation or collaborative law in the Greater Tacoma area. But, you can be rest-assured that our philosophy is balanced. We will protect the rights and interests of you and your children when litigation becomes necessary. Often alternative methods result in more beneficial and effective outcomes. If court action is unavoidable, Attorney Heather Z. Bliss and her team are ready. They will leverage every ounce of their extensive trial knowledge and experience on your behalf. We offer all clients realistic and customized representation based upon your specific situation. Our goal is to not only resolve your immediate legal needs, but to also provide holistic services. These services include abundant resources and guidance that will enrich your family’s future. Whether you are starting to think about divorce, currently going through a divorce, or facing another family law situation, we want to help., Best of Pierce County - Best Family Law, Silver Award, The Tacoma News Tribune, 2025
• Bliss Law Group (BLG) is proud to be recognized for the second year in a row as one of Washington’s Best Workplaces by the Puget Sound Business Journal.   Every year, the Business Journal surveys employees at Washington companies to find employers who have created a positive atmosphere, supportive work environment and fulfilling career path for the people who make their business possible. Washington’s Best Workplaces rankings highlight the companies around the state that receive the highest scores from their employees.  The program is open to any company with at least 10 full-time employees at a location in Washington that has been operational for at least four years. The survey is administered by an independent third party, Quantum Workplace, a leading firm in research of this kind. This continued recognition reflects our ongoing commitment to creating a supportive, collaborative, and empowering environment where every team member can thrive both personally and professionally.  At BLG, our people are our greatest strength. We remain dedicated to investing in their growth, creating opportunities for advancement, and cultivating a culture built on respect, integrity, and teamwork.  Best Workplaces Article, Washington's Best Workplaces, Puget Sound Business Journal, 2025
• The inaugural Excellence in Wellbeing Awards recognizes Puget Sound-area companies that are leading the way on investments in their employees' physical, mental and emotional health. It features organizations that have made employee wellbeing a business priority and embedded it into their leadership philosophy, benefits and daily operations.  Bliss Law Group is honored to be one of 24 Washington-based organizations to receive this honor.   Excellence in Wellbeing Article, Excellence in Wellbeing Award, Puget Sound Business Journal, 2025
• Rating of 9.6 out of 10 (Superb), AVVO
• Best Lawyers believes that the best lawyers know who the best lawyers are. Thus, our recognitions are based purely on the feedback we receive from lawyers already highlighted in our publication., Best Lawyers In America, BestLawyers.com, 2025
• Best Lawyers believes that the best lawyers know who the best lawyers are. Thus, our recognitions are based purely on the feedback we receive from lawyers already highlighted in our publication., Best Lawyers In America, BestLawyers.com, 2024
• Bliss Law Group (BLG) is thrilled to announce that we have been recognized as one of Washington’s Best Workplaces by the Puget Sound Business Journal. This prestigious accolade is a testament to our commitment to fostering a supportive and dynamic work environment, where every team member is empowered to thrive both personally and professionally. Being named one of Washington’s Best Workplaces is more than just an honor; it’s a reflection of our dedication to cultivating a workplace where top talent can excel. At BLG, we believe that our greatest asset is our people. We invest in their growth, provide opportunities for advancement, and nurture a culture of collaboration and respect., Washington's Best Workplaces, Puget Sound Business Journal, 2024
• Bliss Law Group is not only a leader in the legal field but also an integral part of the Pierce County community. We are deeply invested in the well-being of the area we serve, supporting various local initiatives and contributing to causes that align with our values. We are incredibly grateful to the readers of the Tacoma News Tribune and the Pierce County community for this recognition. As we look to the future, we remain committed to upholding the standards of excellence that have brought us here and continuing to serve our community with the same dedication that defines Bliss Law Group., Best Of Pierce County - Family Law; Bronze Winner, The Tacoma News Tribune, 2024
• Best Divorce Lawyers in Tacoma, Expertise.com, 2022
• Fastest Growing Law Firm in US - Honoree, Law Firm 500, 2022
• Best Divorce Lawyers in Tacoma, Expertise.com, 2021
• Fastest Growing Law Firm in US - Honoree, Law Firm 500, 2021
• Fastest Growing Law Firm in US - Honoree, Law Firm 500, 2020
• Fastest Growing Law Firm in US - Honoree, Law Firm 500, 2019
• Fastest Growing Law Firm in US - Honoree, Law Firm 500, 2018
• Honored for Service as a Founding Board Member, Pierce County Washington Women Laywers, 2017
• 15 Year Anniversary Award, Martindale-Hubbell, 2015
• "Best Lawyer" in the South Sound, South Sound Magazine, 2010
• "Best Lawyer" in the South Sound, South Sound Magazine, 2009

“Exceptional attorney.”

“Heather is a wonderful leader and tenacious advocate. She puts her clients first and works hard on their behalf.”

“Ms. Bliss is one of the most highly respected Family Law Attorney's in the Tacoma/Puget Sound area. She has been an exceptional leader and mentor since I joined Bliss Law Group. I have watched her interactions with her clients, staff and colleagues; and I can honestly say she handles herself with poise, strength and dignity, and is well respected in her community. Her knowledge of Family Law and her strive to protect and advocate for her clients is admirable.”

“Heather Bliss deserves Super Lawyer status based on her experience, professionalism, and excellent lawyer skills. She is a great advocate for her clients. And, she is great to work with. If I were to rate her, it would be the highest score. Her reputation and character are stellar.”

“Heather is the premier family law attorney in Tacoma. Highly recommended.”

“Mrs. Bliss is simply the best family lawyer I've run into for several reasons: (1) She possesses a unique ability to connect with clients, they respond to her and place all trust in her (which is well earned and deserved), (2) She is incredibly hard working, (3) She has the respect of peers and judges, (4) She provides the highest quality legal service, which includes going above and beyond for clients.”

“Heather Bliss was recognized by Law Firm 500 as having one of the fastest growing law firms in the US in 2017 and 2018. She is a member of the Collaborative Law Professionals, Pierce Co. chapter as well as the Academy of Collaborative Professionals. She spoke as a Young Lawyers mentor in 2016, as well as at the Tacoma Pierce Co Bar Association in a panel on professionalism. Heather owns her own law firm but still spends time volunteering for the Moot Court Competitions and assists with the Alternative Dispute Resolution Board.”